Roses will not always bloom, spring will not always be there, but the moon will not always be round, no matter how much two people love each other, their hearts will not always coincide. Sometimes it breaks up when you walk, but the lingering fragrance of love is always around you. The pain of lovelorn love is like a dark cloud hanging over your head. How can you get rid of it? How can you get out of the pain of lovelorn love? This is the problem that lovelorn people urgently need to solve.
Avoid obsession and learn to comfort yourself. Even those who have no principles become stubborn when they meet with lovelorn. Pain makes one feel pain, but it also makes one lose. Some people feel that they have failed when they are lovelorn, so they begin to degenerate slowly and even give up their lives; Some people feel that they have failed when they are lovelorn. They think that they should get up where they fall down, so they fight with each other, and finally they are miserable. No matter the former or the latter, the lovelorn person is too stubborn. He can't see why the lost love doesn't belong to him. Instead, he treats the lovelorn affair foolishly with his own self-righteousness, which will only be more painful. A lovelorn person should learn to comfort himself rather than let the wrong person do what he wants. The reason why two people will separate is because they don't love and because they are not suitable. Why do you insist? It is even more inappropriate to continue suffering for a relationship that has nothing to do with you. Please comfort yourself. If the wrong love leaves, the true love will come to you.
Avoid feeling the way you are, and learn to relax. Sleeping won't hurt you, because you won't feel the hurt caused by the end of lovelorn love. But if the wrong love leaves, you have to ask for trouble and try to feel the good things. It's strange that you don't suffer. The lovelorn person would rather put down the things in his hands, and he would also spend time to go to various places where he and she have been, and then thought to himself: Here is the place where we walked hand in hand. But now he was left alone. At this time, the feeling of moving across the border made him heartache. But who was to blame? People who are lovelorn should avoid feeling sentimental, so they should avoid going to places where you often go. This means that out of sight and out of mind. Instead of taking time to miss the past love, it is better to take time to relax and go to the distance to see. One person can carry his luggage and go away, and may encounter true love during the journey.
Avoid thinking about people and try to shift your attention. You still have the postcard she sent you for the previous year's birthday, the photo on the wall is still well pasted there, the alarm clock she set for you on the table is still ticking, and so on. All these things have not changed, but all these have changed again. When you see everything, you can think of her, and then you can feel the pain spreading all over your body, but everything is not her, so your pain tramples on every cell of you more wildly, and lovelorn seems to become the most cruel torture. Put down the love keepsake in your hand, the objects used to commemorate love in your hand, and put your attention on other things or other objects! Do things that you don't have time to do in order to accompany her. You will find that being single is a kind of freedom, and being lovelorn is also a kind of life. Suddenly, the pain will leave you.
Lovelorn love is not a big deal. Almost everyone will encounter such a painful lovelorn love. Why can others cope easily, but you can't?