1、 Worried that 'marriage is the tomb of love'
Solution: Don't always think about how to overcome psychological barriers to achieve happiness, take action
Firstly, it is necessary to get rid of unrealistic fantasies about marriage life, avoid high expectations and extravagance, and not think that everything is good for your lover. Honeymoon is really sweeter than honey, and it should be clearly recognized that the birth of a new family also means an increase in burden, which means that both parties should do their best to fulfill their responsibilities for the family and fulfill their obligations as husbands or wives.
2、 Worried about not being free after marriage
Solution: Try to take on the responsibility
How to overcome psychological barriers, the key depends on whether you want to try to change. In the early stages of entering a love life, single people who are used to it may have many habits, such as dislike of two people facing each other every day, dislike of trivial things in life, etc. However, no matter what, do not give up easily.
You may want to set a period of three months for yourself, during which you try your best to take on your share of responsibility. After passing the psychological adjustment period, your confidence in love and family will definitely grow rapidly.
3、 Worried about not knowing enough about my future husband
Solution: Both men and women need to constantly strengthen their understanding and deepen their relationship, which is the most important psychological preparation before marriage
If this preparation is not sufficient, other preparations, no matter how complete, cannot guarantee a happy and happy life after marriage. Even if there is all the material preparation before marriage, it is difficult to compensate for the psychological damage and maintain the sincere love between the couple. Suggest getting to know each other better before considering getting married, or having a long conversation before marriage to get to know each other as much as possible, which may eliminate the fear of future marriage.
4、 Worried about the impact on work and future after marriage
Solution: How can 'golden leftover women' overcome psychological barriers? Firstly, they need to change their mentality of worrying that marriage will affect their job prospects
Having a child is a necessary stage for a woman. If a 22-year-old woman relies on a bit of youth and cleverness to gain favor, a 28-year-old woman needs to demonstrate stability and competence. It is completely unnecessary for an elderly woman not to get married for the sake of work, and normal marriage and childbirth should be considered by both the company and individuals.