Post Date April, 15 2023
Many people dispersed as they walked. A lot of emotions fade when they are around. People's feelings, in fact, are so pale.
One doesn't ask, one doesn't say
Many feelings have faded because one doesn't ask and the other doesn't say.
Silence is always the beginning of alienation. Between two people, there is no continuity without communication, and there is no emotion without connection.
If one does not ask and one does not speak, the familiar people will gradually lose their common language, and the deep feelings will gradually find no fulcrum.
Without even the desire to talk and listen, the relationship has almost reached its end.
If you value a person, don't be stingy with your words. When you say it, don't expect others to guess your heart out of thin air. When you say it, you have a chance to understand each other.
"One will not retreat, the other will not yield."
Many feelings have faded because one refuses to retreat and the other refuses to let go.
There are not so many suitable people in this world, but they are all accommodating each other.
When people get along with each other, there will always be conflicts. Even the best friends will quarrel, and even the best couples will have conflicts. If a conflict occurs, one will not let go, the other will not retreat, and the quarrel ends, or the cold war ends, the relationship will have been deeply hurt and become very cold.
There is not so much right or wrong in relationships. If you always want to win over each other, you will only lose each other's friendship.
Long term relationships require someone who can accommodate and tolerate each other.
One doesn't wait, one doesn't chase
Many feelings have faded, all because one does not wait and the other does not pursue.
Everyone's pace of life is actually different, and if they cannot cooperate with each other, they can only be farther apart.
"If we cannot keep pace with each other, we will never be able to move forward together.". The difference becomes larger and the distance becomes farther, and the feelings become weaker and weaker.
Life always likes to place many differences between people. These differences may come from regions, money, or status, but as long as the relationship is still there, those who are ahead should not forget to wait, and those who are behind should not give up chasing, the distance between each other will not be far, and this relationship will not fade.
