Only with confidence can we be calm!
Calm is a state of mind. It comes from the open-mindedness and the determination of quality.
Not impetuous, not arrogant, not eager for quick success and instant benefit, not sensationalist. Of course, all this does not mean giving up. On the contrary, it reflects more rational brilliance: diligence, relaxation, perseverance, everything more important process, more important feelings of the soul, as for the outcome? It doesn't matter whether fame and fortune are in hand.
Nature follows its nature, the earth follows its nature, and people change with it. Let everything be as it is, just like after the spring festival, the fruits are ripe, just like after the achievement comes, it will come naturally, just like when you are thirty, you will succeed. Don't force others to succeed. Besides, there are too many things and things in the world that can't be achieved by force, such as the ideal of youth; It is not forced to have, but also like green love.
Everything in the world is natural. Since it is natural, even if it is defeated, why should it be ashamed? If it is successful, why take chances?
Calm, or an attitude.
It's better to lose or gain, not to be happy with things, not to be sad. The universe is chaotic. There is no way between gain and loss. Why bother about losing and gaining, and stay awake all night? Worrying about gains and losses consumes energy and energy in vain. There is a short message that says well: look at life with a calm heart, forgive the world, and treat the world with a grateful heart.
A man who comes to the world naked has nothing at all. Fame, wealth, power and other mundane things are also external things. They are not brought in life or taken away in death. Why pity them. When you die in the middle of a cry, you will return to the world one by one. How about winning the fame of thousands of generations? Even if I am the richest man in the world, what can I do? The Buddhist school said well: If you were born in the dust, you must return to the dust. There are many things in the world.
When we were alive, for a professional title, there was a fight between colleagues for fame and secret; For an honor, friends are intrigued with each other, and fight back; For a small profit, brothers fight with swords and guns, and relatives fight with each other. There are also fishing for fame, asking for merit and reward, slander and slander, retaliation, and even death. When you close your eyes, cover yourself with a handful of loess, and everything disappears, what are you fighting for?
Desire is the source of evil. In a sense, Buddhism is right. Calm comes from a simple desire to see through fame and wealth. Because desire is simple, satisfaction, achievement and happiness often surround us, and our hearts are often filled with joy. The word "joy" should be the source of happiness. It comes from the maturity and fullness of our hearts.
Calm, or a detail of life.
In fact, what else is more important than our life safety in this world? I don't think so.
Whether standing, sitting or walking, always keep your eyebrows and chest open and smile. When we go to Hongmen banquet, even if we are in a humble position, we are still unassuming and unhurried, or between rough meals, or drink alone, or have a fine dinner with friends. We should all drink slowly and not overeat. We should learn to chew delicious food, taste delicious food, and enjoy life.
In ancient times, grain was only used for food. Today, the meaning of food is not limited to this, including birds and animals, including wild seafood, including delicacies and delicacies. Their existence is only to provide rich and comprehensive nutrition for human beings, so that we can better enjoy life. It would be better if we could be vegetarian. Undoubtedly, leisurely chewing is a wonderful prescription for taking nutrition and enjoying life.
No matter how important things we have in mind when we go out of the exquisite restaurant, we must learn to wait calmly when we cross the road, face the red light, face the wide road, and face the fast turning wheels. Delayed the work time, but remember to be late for one time, even if you are fined 10 yuan and 20 yuan, how big is it? Missed the shuttle bus and the next one, delayed an order and new order, lost an important opportunity and the next new opportunity. As long as we work hard, as long as we are diligent, as long as we persevere, opportunities will always be there, and success will always be there!
On the other hand, calm is also a kind of wisdom. It is another virtue deep in our soul, called tolerance.
Be tolerant of others' mistakes whenever and wherever; Be compassionate to the sufferings of others, revere heaven and earth, and humble to all things. Don't gloat over colleagues' mistakes; Even if we criticize the other party, we should be calm, not harsh, and be careful to be calm, like the spring breeze and the rain, moisten things silently; Take it easy. It can make our opinions more pertinent and objective, so that we don't go to extremes and hurt others.
Only when suffering comes, can we be calm, calm, not complaining, and brave to accept, dare to take responsibility, do not avoid, do not compromise, and try our best to get out of the difficulties with our own wisdom and strength. In the face of setbacks, don't be hard on yourself. Because we are human beings, flesh and blood, not omnipotent God, not omnipotent God. Therefore, we should allow ourselves to have mountains that we can't cross, difficulties that we can't cross, and risks and hardships that we can't afford. Therefore, we should not only forgive others, but also forgive ourselves, allow ourselves to fail, and then forgive ourselves. This is not only a simple life experience, but also the great wisdom of life.
Life is long, why do you have to travel in a hurry every day. When you encounter a beautiful scenery, you may as well stop and enjoy it. Once you miss it, you may miss not just a spring, but a whole life.
For you, for me, for things, for things, we might as well take it easy!
Men are confident because they are calm; Women are elegant because they are calm; No matter men or women, only self-confidence can calm down!