Post Date December, 03 2023
After years of love, Nianhua and Ako finally got together, but before Nianhua could share the joy and sweetness of being married, they were awakened by her husband's laziness of never doing housework.
Although Ako doesn't like smoking and drinking, playing cards and gambling, or having fun outside, he also doesn't like to do housework, and even if he watches his eyes open, he is too busy to help. For him, doing housework is like smoking and drinking. It will be harmful to his health if he reaches out his hand. It has reached the point of turning pale when talking about housework.
In the face of Ako's "hands off shopkeeper" style, Nian Hua is very dissatisfied. She is a white-collar worker and not a housewife. Why should she do everything in the family. So he often complained to Ako, "This home is not as good as a hotel, and you have to go through the formalities to stay in the hotel, but you have a good meal, and then you go away after eating. If this goes on, we will become rusty sooner or later. Think about it for yourself."
However, Ako doesn't eat this trick. He thinks that men should go to big business, die in battle, and should not go around the pot. He spoke eloquently to his wife, "From ancient times, men went out to hunt, and women gave birth to children in caves to guard their homes. The old saying said," Anyone who has become a great man must first give up the lead of his nest and eggs, and discard the burden of housework. "
In order to escape from housework, Ako even lingers outside. Over time, conflicts arise. There is constant war between husband and wife, and sometimes there is a war between them. Later, Nianhua and Ako felt tired and bruised, and could not live together. Finally, both of them wrote divorce applications.
From then on, no matter how late Ako came home, there was no hot food waiting for him to eat, no bright and warm light to light him, and no one washed his dirty clothes. After a long time, Ako suddenly felt that he was living too passively. He could not wait for others to take care of everything. He still had to bear the responsibility.
In the face of piles of dirty clothes, he had to condescend to wash them for most of the day, and took some of his wife's clothes with him. At this time, Ako found that housework was not as terrible as he thought, and then Ako really matured.
From that day on, he got off work on time every day, and began to cook and wash clothes when he came home, and took part of the housework. When I come back from work these days, I can always see the dishes on the table that are full of color, aroma and taste. I finally have a smile on my face. And Ako also thinks the food these days is particularly delicious.
For several days, the beautiful face of the youth finally disappeared and a long-lost smile appeared. Seeing his wife's smiling face, Ako worked harder at home. Gradually, his tenderness for him returned to his old age, and the family also restored its former harmony and happiness.
In fact, in modern society, the problem of housework has troubled countless men and women. Under the premise that both men and women are working and their economic status tends to be balanced, who does housework and how much housework is increasingly becoming a vexing problem between couples. If one party only asks the other party to "serve the people wholeheartedly", but they stay out of the situation and enjoy the benefits, it is not only disrespect for the other party, but also a desecration of their marital responsibilities.
The most efficient way to solve this problem is to establish an equal and mutual "household agreement" between husband and wife. However, even so, the heavy housework still bothers us. How to turn housework into an art, turn it into easy and interesting work, and treat it with a happy mood has become an urgent problem for couples.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
