Post Date December, 03 2023
Many men, tired of the dull marriage life, often hope to meet another "beautiful looking" one-night stand, and take it for granted that an occasional derailment will not bring any serious consequences. "The psychological impact of a man's occasional infidelity may cause a significant decline in sexual desire."
The 42-year-old Mr. Lu is a "model husband", who has a strong sense of family and responsibility. Not long ago, he went out to play with friends in the evening. Maybe alcohol played a role. When he was drunk, he attended another "program" after dinner and did something he shouldn't do.
Since then, he has not slept for three consecutive days. Although he confessed this matter to his wife with a feeling of extreme remorse, not only did his psychological pain not abate, but also he felt uncomfortable all over, and suspected that he had contracted sexually transmitted diseases. For this reason, he was restless all day, not only couldn't go to work, but also couldn't have a normal sex life with his wife.
Experts explained that Mr. Lu had a sudden psychological disorder due to a one-night romance, which led to problems in his sexual life. Because his perfect psychology is very strong, his reputation and morality are very important, and he is not allowed to make any mistakes, which exaggerates the consequences of this event. In addition, his personality is too rigid and passive, and the "one-night stand" is more unforgivable in his moral code than other minor mistakes in his life, which leads to psychological deviation. The occasional derailment of "looking beautiful" made him unable to be a normal person.
Experts said that it is not uncommon for Mr. Lu to have psychological disorders due to "one-night stand". Many times, men will overestimate their psychological endurance, thinking that the "adjustment and adjustment" without knowing it will not affect their lives. However, I didn't expect that sometimes psychological barriers would be hidden in life events, like a bomb, waiting for even a little mistake you made to trigger.
The cheaters worry about being discovered by their spouses all day long, and regard this as a permanent stain on their spouses' infidelity; The heavy ones will be like Mr. Lu, not only suffering from the psychological state of extreme self-reproach, but also may lead to other serious consequences. Therefore, Di Xiaolan reminded that, apart from family responsibilities, when a man's "playboy" is ready to act, he should first think about whether he can bear the consequences that may be caused by cheating.
(Intern editor: Liu Jinhao)
