Many men in life like to pursue older women, and this trend is becoming increasingly intense. Although these men have reached adulthood, they have been mentally unable to grow up due to their more or less Oedipus complex.
Therefore, they lack assertiveness and independence in everything they do. If no one guides them or takes the lead in demonstrating, they will be shy and lack independent assertiveness and motivation even in their sexual life.
Not only do they perform this well in heterosexual relationships, but they also lack a sense of autonomy in their work. Even if given any homework, they also lack their own opinions, and are constantly looking forward to comments from their superiors. When he is among a group of colleagues or subordinates, he hates the position of a mentor. However, such people always like to make friends with older people, so that they can feel secure.
Another situation is sexual inferiority complex. People who harbor a sense of inferiority complex in sexual matters also have two completely different extreme manifestations.
The first type of performance is to constantly invite women, boasting to the other party about their own eroticism in a semi playful manner, while deliberately showing how much they like women. At first glance, it looks like an old hand in the romantic scene. In fact, this person is really harboring a sexual inferiority complex and deliberately pretending to have an opposite attitude. In other words, it is due to the psychological esteem formed by reaction.
To be honest, among a group of men who deliberately act lewdly, are there many homosexual people? This shows that this kind of man looks like a paper tiger with a strong exterior and a weak interior.
Another manifestation is extreme cleanliness towards women.
Kant, the great German philosopher, has been very serious about women's relationships all his life. It is said that if his friend mentioned marriage or the issue of men and women to Kant, Kant could hardly contain his anger.
Kant lists the words about marriage as taboos in his family, so some people speculate from these facts that Kant may have a strong sense of inferiority in sexual matters. He has always adhered to the creed of not getting married and not being near women, and his belief in this aspect is almost more attentive and devout than the philosophical creed of faith. No wonder someone speculates that he may have a sexual inferiority complex.
(Intern Editor: Wu Weijie)