November 22nd is the Good Couple Day in Japan. The top ten standards for good couples are released

"11? 22" has become the "Good Couple Day" event in Japan, and it has been going on for 20 years this year. This activity was established 20 years ago by the Leisure Development Center of a Japanese consortium, which aims to promote marital love and family harmony. The reason why "Good Couple Day" is designated as November 22nd is mainly because in Japanese, the pronunciation of 11 is the same as that of the word "good", while the pronunciation of 22 is the same as that of a couple.

On "Good Couple Day", couples are grateful and value each other. At this time of year, Japan also conducts a "Good Couple" selection. On the 19th of this year, the "Good Couple" activity promotion meeting released the results of this year's "Good Couple" selection. The Beijing Olympic men's 400 meter dash silver medal winners Asahara Xuanji and Mrs. Shiko won the "Good Couple Award.".

November 22nd is Japan's "Good Couple Day"

When asked about the secret of the love between husband and wife, Asahara said, "Mutual trust is the most important.". "Famous Japanese couple stars Yoshiwa Miura and Baihui Yamaguchi have also revealed the secret of not quarreling after 31 years of marriage, saying, 'We also have unhappy times when we have an agreement to take turns as angels. After a conflict occurs, no matter who is right or who is wrong, one party must first bow their heads and admit their mistakes to make the other party happy.'"

So, what kind of couples are eligible to be called "good couples"? Perhaps in the minds of a thousand people, there will be a thousand specific standards. After all, compared to bad couples, good couples have many conductive characteristics that are easy to distinguish. Just as we see old couples hugging each other on the street, sometimes we are inexplicably moved and envied, good couples also have many specific manifestations. From these expressions, we can see the beautiful factors and human qualities in the inner layer of emotions or in the depths of the soul. Good couples generally have some typical behaviors:

1. Humor and laughter naturally arise, creating a relaxed and lively atmosphere.

"It is often rare for couples to create a humorous atmosphere. Such couples must have a harmonious temperament, be naturally formed, or experience blending to achieve their ultimate goal.". Some couples are naturally prone to falling into quarrels, apathy, or insipidity. Between such couples, it is difficult to form a humorous atmosphere, often with frustration, lack of conversation, boredom, and even malicious language. Because humor is natural and comes from a shared realm, for example, couples who have shared hardships or who have good qualities, good attitudes, and good relationships tend to naturally generate humor. Humor is a quality, but also a sensitivity to comedy in life, life, society, and other aspects. The environment is born from the heart, and humor is a relaxed and harmonious harmony that good couples can have. Couples who understand humor often have fewer arguments and trouble seeking.

2. It is often thoughtful to ask for warmth and help each other because of affection.

The relationship between husband and wife should be a loving and intentional relationship of mutual assistance and mutual assistance. In the long river of life, we can stay away from our parents and relatives and friends. Only this husband and wife can be together day and night, and together for life. A bad couple may not care about each other and despise each other, but a good couple will always know their intentions intimately. Care for each other, love each other, and embrace each other. In fact, many men and women can't help but express their concern and love for the other party when they are in love, but after marriage, they become lazy, lazy, or tired of doing so, or simply believe that doing so is unnecessary. This kind of relationship between husband and wife is bound to loosen, even turning marriage into a true tomb of love and a slaughterhouse of life. Good couples often greet each other with compliments and greetings. This is not a deliberate attempt to please, but a genuine emotional need. Because when one party cares about the other party, her (his) inner emotions can obtain a self-help satisfaction.

3. Take care of each illness, caring for the other person is better than caring for yourself.

Couples should be able to share weal and woe, and share weal and woe. Especially when one party has three ailments and four pains, and the healthy one must pay more and take good care of the other party, not only in taking medication, injections, companionship, diet, and other aspects, but also sometimes not afraid of hardship and dirt. Good couples always do everything naturally at times like this. When they are sick, they are relatively indifferent, while when the other person is sick, they must be highly valued. How can a couple who doesn't care about each other's illness not fall into apathy and end up having a different bed and a different heart? "We only get what we give, and many times, we just want to get more greedily, but we don't want to let ourselves truly give.".