Post Date April, 15 2023
Tell a story first.
The heroine is not my friend and I don't know her, but one of my female friends is the heroine's best friend. The heroine is 38 years old this year. She is an older young woman. If she has to be classified, she can be included in the column of "Qi Tian Da Yu". In terms of appearance, it is not like sinking fish and falling geese, closing the moon and putting flowers to shame. But people in Jiangsu and Zhejiang also have the gentle and small features of women in Jiangsu and Zhejiang. Of course, being gentle and small is just a look. In fact, she is a strong woman in her heart. She is very sharp in her work.
It is said that she is not the kind of woman who hates marriage. In fact, work is the first priority, but she can't be Wu Zetian all her life. There are always times when she feels lonely inside. So one day, a handsome male subordinate appeared. The male subordinate is also the hero of this story. All the male protagonists generally have a handsome appearance, and are very considerate to the female protagonist. They not only help actively deal with work matters, but also pay attention to small details of life, such as sending a medicine for illness, reminding the cold weather and adding clothes. Unfortunately, the hero has a wife.
In this way, things become a bit complicated. The heroine can't tell whether the hero is true to her or just bargains from the perspective of work. But the male protagonist is more and more active, from being able to barely classify to the care of ordinary friends, it has rapidly developed to show true love with his heart. The heroine soon fell in love, because people who have been lonely for too long believe in love more than people who have been looking for flowers and willows all day long. The masculinity of the leading actor has also become a necessary skill in city siege.
My friend asked me my opinion on this matter, and I have always been on guard against particularly handsome men. Like beautiful women, handsome men can be the bane of beauty. Especially if handsome men also know that they are handsome men, they can fully apply this advantage, just like some women with insufficient working ability will flirt with the boss in the workplace, in the face of obvious interests, It is difficult for others to help her distinguish whether this is true or false.
The current society is very realistic. If a woman is too beautiful, she should pray that she did not meet a female boss during the interview. Frankly speaking, if I meet someone who is beautiful or handsome during the interview, I will always doubt them or their professional ability, and the glib people will be more cautious and cautious, and the most flattering result is the common faces. The same is true for men. Although everyone says that handsome men have advantages in the workplace, don't forget that most of the big bosses in enterprises are still men, and the same kind is always harsh. Once a handsome man's work performance is unsatisfactory, he will be labeled as a "flower with only appearance" together with a beautiful woman with the same unsatisfactory performance.
Back to that story, the story of the two people finally happened. The hero is usually very handsome. When he wants to be real, he dare not show his face, and sent his parents out. The parents stood up and pointed out two things: first, their son has no responsibility and will not divorce; Second, because of such things happening in the company, the heroine, as the boss of her son, has the obligation to take care of the heroine at work! It's amazing. It turns out that a family of people live on soft food!
Fortunately, the heroine is accustomed to the intrigues in the workplace. Although she carelessly became a mistress for such an unruly man, she knows the truth of turning around and has no reason to take any care of her at work. She was a leftover woman before and was still a leftover woman. As long as she is willing to look up in front of the failed feelings, she will lose nothing. Men can't stand the working environment outside of swaddling clothes. They become a disheveled person and finally choose to leave.
When I was young, beautiful appearance was a sign. When I saw a beautiful man, I would take the initiative to stick it up. But I calmly thought about my life after the age of 30 and found that beautiful men need to spend more energy to prove themselves in order to be trusted by others, whether in love or work. For example, many women like to make their men fat, which makes them feel safe, while customers at work are always worried that the people sent here are too good-looking, too fashionable, and pay too much attention to their appearance, so they may not work steadfastly. Once upon a time, beauty has been labeled as "impetuous".
After writing this article, I can't help recalling those beautiful men in my career. There are some who are professional and some who are impetuous. So whether they are beautiful or ugly, in fact, they can't be arbitrarily determined. Beauty can still expect to spend the rest of her life with a rich man. What about beautiful men? I suddenly felt a deep sympathy for them
(Intern editor: Zhao Minqing)
