Nine Negative Mentalities Most Tabooned by Workplace Men
1. Waste time in self pity
Feeling unfair in the face of the harsh external environment or one's own situation, complaining incessantly, but unwilling to take any action.
2. Waste time on things you can't control
There are too many things in the external environment that we cannot control. Instead of wasting time complaining, it is better to take time to think about the parts that we can control.
3. Worried about how to please others
"There is no need to blindly try to please others, but rather to truthfully express your praise at the right time and occasion, without embarrassing the other person or appearing too deliberate and insincere.".
4. Fear of taking risks after evaluation
Taking risks is a necessary process for success, but it should not be foolhardy. Once possible risks have been carefully evaluated in advance, take a step forward.
5. Loss of control
Being influenced by others in their behavior and emotions can easily be influenced by the outside world and lead to the perception that they are inferior or incompetent.
6. Dare to make changes
Unwilling to make changes or face new challenges, fearful of the unknown or uncertainty, and wanting to escape.
7. Persistence in the past
Thinking about past successes or failures only makes you more stagnant and unable to face the future.
8. Making the same mistake again and again
If you cannot learn from past mistakes, you will only waste more time and become increasingly difficult to succeed.
9. Envy others' success
The negative emotion of "not being able to see others well" is actually completely unnecessary. The really important thing is whether you work hard for your own goals.
The above nine types of negative psychology of men in the workplace introduced by the editor must be kept in mind. So how do men in the workplace face up to their psychological problems? What common sense do you have?