It is said that there is a saying circulating in society: "Upper class men are afraid of their wives, middle class men love their wives, and lower class men beat their wives
This is equivalent to elevating men who are afraid of their wives to a very noble position, making them a fashion and a standard for dividing men's levels. The person who invented this sentence must be the best among those who are afraid of wives.
But let's not say, men who are afraid of their wives are indeed easy to succeed.
According to anthropologists' research, men who are afraid of wives have stable families, and they avoid the risk of backyard fires. They focus on their own careers and often succeed in their careers. The laziness and carelessness in a man's personality are more easily transformed into diligence and carefulness; And the habits of smoking and drinking can also be controlled, which is beneficial for physical health; The husband who is most likely to affect family stability, such as being in a romantic setting, is also rarely seen due to his fear of "the roaring lion from the east". A man who is afraid of his wife enjoys a lifelong marriage and leads a happy life of growing old together.
Of course, men who are afraid of their wives are not that easy to do. By listening to the word 'henpecked', we know that these men's behavior must follow their wives' arrangements, and there are some rules that must be followed.
The requirement of "three obedience and four virtues" for women in the past has now completely shifted to men with strict wives. The "three obediences and four gains" of men are: the wife must obey orders, the wife must follow when shopping, and the wife must blindly follow when making mistakes; The wife needs to wait for her makeup, remember her birthday, be willing to spend money, and endure beating and scolding.
The study of henpecked men is also becoming increasingly detailed.
Some people categorize fear of wife into three types:
Type 1: True Wife Fear
My wife is very fierce, but my husband is very timid; My husband is truly afraid of his wife from the bottom of his heart, which is truly henpecked.
Women are as passionate as fire, as strong as Sun Er Niang, who is prone to cursing and hitting with their hands; Men's fear is more of a form of self-protection
Type 2: Seems afraid of wives
My husband is not really afraid of his wife, but just for the sake of family harmony and the physical and mental health of his children. Therefore, he calms down and listens to his wife's words, pretending to be afraid of his wife.
The third type, fear arises from love
Because I love my wife, but I am afraid of her, afraid of her anger, afraid of her sadness, afraid of her not loving me.
In the vast sea of people, at that moment, a man met the person he liked and walked into the palace of marriage hand in hand. In future marriage, a man is willing to serve as a slave, not because of fear, but because of love, he actively puts himself in a position of "fear"; The beauty of women makes men jealous. If they spoil them for a long time, "pet" becomes "fear"; Women are intelligent, broad-minded, and able to take on responsibilities. They handle everything at home and abroad with ease, which makes people dissatisfied. Men's fear is actually a form of admiration; All of these are the causes of strict wife management, so even though men are tigers, women still become Wu Song who fights tigers.
Ranking of Wife Fear in Major Chinese Cities
Moreover, some people have compared men from major cities, and the Shanghai men who won the first place in fear are those who love their wives more than themselves, making the gentle and charming Shanghai women the most enviable women in the world.
The second place is a Chengdu man. It is said that Chengdu men add a wheelchair to the right side of their bicycles to make their wives sit more comfortably; What a woman says is what she means. If she doesn't listen, the petite, angry, and spicy Chengdu woman will stretch out her hand and wring her husband's ears red and swollen.
The third place is Wuhan men, although they also belong to powerful roles among men in the country, they are ultimately managed by clean Wuhan women who are willing to be defeated