Post Date April, 15 2023
Sweet love does not necessarily mean happiness in marriage, as Cheng Yang and Jia Jia have deeply experienced after their marriage.
Cheng Yang and Jia Jia, who have been in love for many years, joined hands and entered the palace of marriage. In the eyes of everyone, this beautiful couple will lead a happy life like a prince and princess. When they first got married, it was true that they got along very well. However, as time passed, the potential conflicts between this young couple gradually surfaced.
Cheng Yang is the department head of an internet company, with a very heavy workload every day. When he comes home, he only does two things: eat and rest. Busy people always prioritize work and prioritize life matters. In this way, cooking, laundry, and household chores are all handled by Jiajia, who is relatively leisurely.
Jiajia is very considerate to her lover. She is willing to take care of Cheng Yang's household chores, but Cheng Yang's too casual behavior makes Jiajia dislike it very much. Every time he returned home, Cheng Yang never hung his clothes on the hanger, but casually threw them somewhere; The shoes are not placed in the shoe rack and are directly taken off at the door. What angers Jia Jia the most is that Cheng Yang's "love" for her has noticeably decreased, and even if he actively expresses his love, he cannot achieve the desired effect.
The problem is not only for Cheng Yang alone, but also for Jia Jia, who makes him feel a headache. Women all like shopping, and Jia Jia is no exception. Cheng Yang is not afraid of Jia Jia spending money, but the things he buys are not practical and just for novelty. He doesn't pay attention to them when he buys them and puts them somewhere.
There was no conflict between the young couple, but these details made them both very uncomfortable with each other. As the days grew, conflicts between the two were ignited, and a rift appeared in their happy marriage.
Life details affect marital life
There is a popular saying in the popular TV drama "The Age of Naked Marriage": Details defeat love. In fact, details can not only defeat love but also destroy the relationship between husband and wife.
In the eyes of many people, they do not pay much attention to details and believe that it will not affect the overall situation; In addition, when two people with different habits of men and women live together, there will naturally be a lot of discomfort, making it easy for them to "lose out on small things".
Due to the inability of newlyweds to adapt to each other's habits, it is easy for them to complain and even experience friction over small matters. As the saying goes, a single spark can start a prairie fire. When the small sparks generated by friction gradually increase, it will inevitably cause emotional collisions, and in severe cases, it will lead to marriage breakdown.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
