Post Date April, 15 2023
One day, five women, all about 40 years old, came to the cosmetic clinic. Due to the large number of people, they do not have the shy expression of those who usually have to undergo vaginal constriction surgery. A leader said very generously, "We all have to undergo vaginal constriction surgery."
I couldn't help laughing: "Why, do you all have problems?"
They don't know what is "problematic". The leader said, "It's OK how much money, but it should be done by women doctors."
I laughed again: "It's OK for the female doctor to do it, but first check to see if you need to do it." Five people shouted together: "We really need to do it."
I stopped laughing: "This is not a shampoo and perm. You can do it for you if you need to. This is a hospital, and surgery is symptomatic. If the vagina is tight and not loose, why do you do it?" They stopped talking.
I asked the female doctor Xiao Ling to examine them. The vagina of three of them is loose, but not serious. The other two are not tight, but not too loose. They all had children, and some had two children. Their physiology is very normal, and there is no need for vaginal constriction surgery.
Five complaining women: complaining that they can't satisfy their husband's "sexual interest"
After I told them my opinion, five women burst into flames and quarreled with each other. They insisted: "Don't you say it's not easy to relax? The body grows on us. Only we know it's not easy to relax, and we must do it." Indeed, they have the right to ask for narrowing the vagina, and this is not a dangerous operation, and it is not difficult. So I expressed my understanding and respect.
After the five women settled down, I told the women doctors in charge of the operation, Xiao Ling and Xiao Yang, to pay attention to the preoperative conversation and try to eliminate some psychological interference outside the operation. Xiao Ling and Xiao Yang learned from their conversation that these five women are good friends, all of whom live in local areas and have good family conditions.
They said that they were upset because their husband hooked up with young girls and kept a close relationship with them. They not only resent the young girls who stole their husbands, but also feel inferiority complex for their physiological changes and age after having children.
They don't hate their husbands, but they hate themselves. They resent that they are not attractive enough to hold their husbands' hearts; He resents that his body is no longer "tight" and cannot satisfy his husband's "sexual interest". They not only stepped up their surveillance and tracking, but also grasped the money box and found reasons for themselves.
Couple discord: what should be made up for?
They think that the appearance cannot be changed, and they believe that it is not important, because the relationship between husband and wife is still there, and the problem must be sexual. Many women think that men are a machine, a machine that needs to be started from time to time. Women are also machines, which are matched with men, just like screws and nuts. How big the screw is, the nut must be tightly matched, which is the responsibility of women.
Therefore, the five women concluded that their vagina was bad. The loose vagina due to childbirth could not satisfy the pain and pleasure of men, so they took vaginal surgery.
When I learned about these situations, I mobilized them not to have surgery, especially those two women who were not relaxed. I said that I am also a man. I know that emotion is not as simple as a machine. People are people who have thoughts and feelings. The relationship between husband and wife is a kind of continuous relationship that emphasizes friendship. It is a good strategy to make up in other aspects. However, none of the five women agreed with me. They do not admit that they have shortcomings in other aspects, nor do they admit that there is something wrong with their feelings.
They said that their husbands treated them very well because they gave them a lot of money, which is proof. The culprit is this loose vagina. They must transform in substance, surprise their husbands and bring them back to them.
However, I told the two female doctors, Xiao Ling and Xiao Yang, to give them a mild treatment, just to the point. As a result, the operation was very good. Before the operation, the five women spent all day talking about their husbands and lovers. Now they are full of hope and ready for a new life.
