My wife suddenly likes to dress up, and I suspect she's hiding something from me. I feel very embarrassed when I follow her and see the scene
My wife and I went to the south to work together. This time, I want to work hard and down-to-earth. I made an agreement with those who need debt, and if we cannot repay their debts within three years, we will let them handle it. So, we handed the child over to our parents, carried our bags and went to the big city to work again. We rented a single room, which expired our life of living in a small house. The bitter fruit buried by oneself must be swallowed no matter how bitter it is. I am obsessed with paying off my debts early, working early and returning late every day, going through the wind and rain, and never complaining.
My wife saw it in her eyes and felt pain in her heart. In addition to her daytime job, she also found a part-time job at night. As it was a part-time job, it kept changing, so I still don't know what she does part-time. In her words, wherever there is money to make, she will go for it. After a year of hard work, our debt has been cleared in half, and the burden on my shoulders has instantly lightened a lot. I am very grateful to my wife for not giving up on me at this time.
This year, I am working hard as usual to quickly repay the money, save some money to go home and start a small business, no longer dreaming of making big money, so that I can reunite with my family earlier. My wife is also very supportive of me, and I am very frugal in my life because we both have jobs and rarely argue about small things in life. My relationship has always been stable.
I don't know when I noticed that my wife has undergone subtle changes. She never uses high-end cosmetics. On her dressing table, I glanced at all the big brands in the advertisement, which are not much. Women in their thirties know how to maintain themselves, and I can understand. What I can't understand is that she works part-time in the evening and also dresses herself up in sexy, heavily makeup.
Several times, when she came back from work, she was full of alcohol. When I asked her what was going on, she replied that the boss was happy to treat her to dinner, so she couldn't help but drink two more glasses. How could a boss be so generous and treat employees to dinner every two days? I don't believe her words at all. I became increasingly suspicious of her, and I secretly followed her when she went to work part-time. She entered a bar, arrived at the counter, picked up the tray and began to collect it.
Originally, she was working as a waiter, and at that moment, I suddenly felt ashamed. Watching the painting style go awkwardly, a few guests casually touched her buttocks. She didn't care at all and playfully poured drinks for the guests, even being persuaded by those men. She boldly picked up her glass and drank, which made me feel embarrassed standing from a distance. My face turned red and embarrassed. How could I accept my wife being a waitress at the bar.
Worried of face, I never dared to call her up until she finished her two hour part-time job and was surprised to see me squatting at the door. The first thing I said was to ask her to resign from this job. She looked puzzled and said I was making trouble for no reason. I told her what I saw, and she cried, saying that it wasn't all about helping me pay off my debt. Do I need to sell my body to help me repay my debt? Do I need you to help me like this? "I roared.
She cried with tears on her face, saying that she hadn't betrayed herself and that I insulted her personality. I found her crying very disturbing. She proposed a divorce and said she would never live this kind of life with me again. Every day she worked so hard and would be insulted by me. I'm quite anxious to hear her say that. I never thought about getting divorced. The scene of her being touched in a bar made me feel nauseous. What should I do?
Reply from Weiqing Consultant:
You should feel fortunate that a woman can do this for you. She helps you earn money and repay debts day and night, with the aim of living a normal life earlier. However, you not only lack gratitude, but also suspect her everywhere, which invisibly increases her disappointment with you. The poor couple mourns for everything. In this situation, she did not abandon you, indicating that she has you in her heart. However, you question and humiliate her in this special situation, which is indeed chilling.
In this situation, you should support each other. If you don't want her to do that kind of work, you should work harder to make her feel secure and feel your true thoughts, rather than being wronged. I wish you happiness.