Post Date April, 15 2023
When we got married, we were still young and had just graduated from college for six months. The night before we got married, when I was talking to my mother-in-law, I asked her to agree to one thing: I had already accommodated you in the matter of getting married, but I didn't want to have children too early. So I hope you don't make it difficult for me and put pressure on me to adapt slowly after getting married. At that time, I was very serious about telling my mother-in-law about this matter. My mother-in-law also agreed with all her heart, so I let go and happily prepared for the wedding.
Who knows, just two months after getting married, my mother-in-law started urging me to have children. I was really angry at the time, how could people be so ungrateful? Everyone knows that getting married too early is not good, it will have a series of impacts on work and so on. In order to make you happy, I also got married. When I got married, I didn't mention any conditions, but I mentioned one thing: I don't want to have children too early, I hope they don't put pressure on me when it comes to giving birth, but my mother-in-law
I asked her why she didn't mean what she said at the time. She teased me and said that she agreed to me, but later she said let it be, let it be, and she didn't say anything. She said that if we take contraceptive measures, she wouldn't be happy... I was also angry and said that when to have a child is our own thing, so we didn't pay any attention.
One day, I unexpectedly found that the condoms in the drawer of our room had their bags pricked with needles. I can imagine how I felt at that time. As soon as my husband comes back, I will interrogate him. I understand his character very well, and I think it's definitely not him. As soon as I asked my husband, he became anxious and said that he would definitely not do such a thing. I said that there were only a few people in this room, and who else would there be if it weren't for you. As a result, my husband called my mother-in-law to ask. Upon seeing it, she pretended to be surprised and said, 'What kind of thing is this? I have never used it before and I don't understand.'.
I don't want to make the angry atmosphere too awkward, so I said, 'That might be the way I bought it, but I'm very clear that the piercing look is artificial at first glance.'. Let me finally confirm that it was my mother-in-law who did it because she said a meaningful sentence to me the next morning, "Condoms are not absolutely safe. There are many unexpected pregnancies, hehe.
When I found that there were needle holes on the condom, there were only two condoms inside the box. That means we had already used several condoms with needle holes before, but we didn't notice them. My mother-in-law's meaning is that if I get pregnant this month, there shouldn't be too much surprise.
I am too careless. I usually put the condom in the drawer of the bedside table, and I usually use it at night, and I never thought such a thing would happen again in my mind. Fortunately, I wasn't pregnant that month, and I haven't been so careless since then. My mother-in-law saw that one plan couldn't be achieved and came up with another plan
She seized every opportunity, even her good friend who came to my house to play, and urged me to talk about the benefits of having a child early, the drawbacks of giving birth at an early age, and the need to think more of others when doing things. She said she had a child at the age of 23. I'm old enough to say anything, and I don't have children or anything like that. I also called my parents and lobbied around.
My mother, in order to maintain family harmony, dealt with her and promised to tell me to have a child as soon as possible. My mother-in-law felt like she had received a decree, believing that I would soon become pregnant.
I was in a bad mood because of these things, so I talked to my mother-in-law once. I said, Mom, I am a woman, and women don't want to have their own children, but they need to have good birth and childbirth. I heard that the best age for women to have children is 25-30, and I will definitely have a child. I will adjust my body and mind to the best state as soon as possible, and give birth to a good baby in the future.
My mother-in-law was very happy to hear that, but she seemed to be unable to wait for a moment. When she saw me, she asked, "Do you think you can conceive this month? She is very clear about my menstrual cycle. Recently, I have some gynecological inflammation, so she told her that I will treat the inflammation this month, and she also said that I will make excuses.
In short, I am extremely distressed by this matter. When is it so important for my mother-in-law to have a child? I must resort to all means to achieve my goal. I really hate my mother-in-law for this matter.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
