My lover ignored me because I was chatting with netizens, which made me feel overwhelmed

I miss him so much, but he doesn't miss me anymore. Nobody blames me, I only blame myself.

"I was chatting with a netizen and wanted to go to the hotel with me. I didn't answer the phone and went directly to tell him about it. He mostly didn't want to be with me for this matter. He explained to him, and he also knew I didn't have that matter. He was angry, 99% of whom blamed me for it, and I didn't have it. I shouldn't have told him about it.".

"I think he'll think about it as soon as he's with me, so he doesn't want me anymore, and he can't get through this. Although I didn't do that with my online friends, I also understand that no man can accept it. Forget it, just ignore it. I still miss him a bit, but he doesn't want me anymore.". "If you don't want to, blame me. Maybe this relationship will end from now on. If he comes to me again, let him go. I don't think I will agree again. I didn't reply to my message at that time, and then my heart cooled down. I don't want to, and I don't think he will call me anymore. I feel that he is bored, doesn't like me, doesn't want to talk to me, and looks down on me anymore. How could he come to me again? Cut it off, calm and relaxed.".

"Extramarital affairs are really tiring, but I'm willing to say no to me from his mouth, but he doesn't say it. No matter what I send him a message to say, he basically doesn't speak. I don't know what he thinks, and I really want to sit down with him and talk about it. What's the matter?"? In terms of an extramarital relationship where neither person wants to affect each other's family, what happens if a man likes a woman? Give her money? Buy a gift? "I never mentioned anything to him. When something happened at home, I told him that I had given him some money. Sometimes when I went to the mall, he asked me if I was spending money."? I said no, I have the money. Later, he never said to give me money. How can I measure whether he loves me or not? Spend money?

I feel inseparable from him. The main reason is that my husband is sick, and I can tell him something that can give me an idea. If something happens, I can help financially. It seems like my good friend is around him, and I am willing to do so. I feel comfortable in this way. Why is this happening? He also saw that I would respond to his requests, as long as he wanted to, he wanted my body, and I wanted his ability to handle things.

"Now I feel like I won't take the initiative to contact him in the future. If he asks for me, I'll go there. If I don't, I won't, so I'll feel better.". If it breaks completely, I can't stand up in a woman's house, and I told myself to be strong, but in reality, I don't have the power or power. To put it bluntly, I have to surround myself with his own plans. Why should I think so badly about him? Will he think of me like that?

I once asked myself if I was insane or too weak. What should I do in the face of this relationship? "It's still going on like this until he says in person that he doesn't want me. His silence makes me wonder what he thinks in his heart, and I feel like he has me in his heart. It's just that he's angry. He looks down on me for chatting with others, so I hold this mindset. He comes and doesn't come and doesn't matter. I'm like this. What does he want to do? I feel better in my heart, so why don't I think of him like this?"? I don't want to do this anymore. I don't love myself anymore. We eagerly await your reply.

reply:

1. To be blunt, an extramarital affair can only be a deformed relationship because it cannot be seen and can only remain in a dark corner. Extramarital affairs often begin with extramarital sex, and in the end, it's just a matter of taking what you want, taking what you want, and taking what you want. If you want to have a good result, you can only imagine it.

2. Women should remember that when it comes to extramarital affairs, it is often women who get involved easily and cause greater harm. "Because many women get trapped while playing, and once they are unable to extricate themselves, you will get deeper and deeper, and ultimately can only bear the pain.". In an extramarital affair, a man's true state of mind and needs are that bed, that's your body. Therefore, a man's goals are straightforward, while a woman's expectations are complex.

3. Extramarital affairs are not a game that everyone can afford. If you don't want to end up harvesting pain, please don't blindly intervene. After all, in the process, you think you have acquired a man, but in fact, you are just being played with; "You think you're taking advantage of someone by getting a little money from them, but you're actually losing your dignity."; "You think that if you pay for the other person, the other person cares about you as much, but in fact, you just think too much;"; You think you seem to have found true love outside of marriage, but in fact you have been deceived by your own illusions; "You think your emotional world has become rich and colorful since then, but in fact, your life has become infinitely bleak and has added an indelible stain.".

4. As far as you are concerned, your extramarital affair is also nothing special, and it is just a vulgar transaction in which each other knows what they need and takes what they need. In fact, your heart is very clear about what you need and what the other party needs. In that case, you are still extravagant about talking about what you love and care about. Perhaps you really fell in love with him, but you are not qualified; Perhaps you are afraid of losing him and losing a spiritual support, but ultimately, people have to rely on themselves. Who can be trusted in this world? Wake up and let yourself wake up to avoid a muddled life; Continuing to remain confused can only create an abyss for oneself that will never be undone. Whether your life is wonderful or not depends not on others helping you set off fireworks. Whether your life is shining or not depends only on yourself to shine. You are your most important value. Don't sell yourself and your soul to others in exchange for a little cheap comfort and help, which will only make you humble and worthless.