Q:
What is there to make a man sober? No matter what I say now, my husband chooses not to believe it. He thinks I'm just procrastinating to avoid divorce and asking me not to slander anymore. He doesn't even see through what kind of woman that mistress is!
Do men love this type? Looking gentle and atmospheric, it looks like I've seen the world before, but what about the truth? Who brought her to the world, have you ever thought about it? I have inquired from multiple sources that the reason why the junior was dismissed from the original unit was because he engaged in nepotism and took shortcuts. It is said that he was the lover of several leaders at the same time, and his reputation was very poor. He really couldn't get along anymore, and was "eliminated" by the wife team. Such a person, now she is like a fish in water in her husband's company because she has learned well. This time, she only recognizes my husband as the one person. No matter what others say, she is particularly capable of putting on airs in front of my husband.
Teacher, I really can't stand this. I grew up in an intellectual family, and my parents were early college students. My father also studied there, and I myself graduated from a prestigious school. My circle has always been clean, and my husband and I were alumni. At that time, my family contributed some of the money, and his second uncle abroad gave him a sum of money, which led to the establishment of the company. It is not easy to start a business until today, as he has repeatedly said, He does business not for money, but to achieve his life goals. He has his own set of beliefs, and I have always been very supportive and appreciative of him. I can't figure out where he didn't do it well, but I let the third person flatter him in front of him.
In recent years, they have been dating and completely forgotten the existence of my wife. When Xiao San first joined the company, she was respectful to me. Now that her position is stable, her respect is all superficial. In front of her husband, she appears afraid of me, but secretly, I know what she said to him about me. She wanted to overthrow someone, which was very skillful. Once, an employee spread her gossip in the office (where is gossip actually? Teacher, it's already a public fact that she tangled with my husband), and she heard it. She didn't have a fit at the time, but secretly caused various stumbling and even deliberately tampered with it, causing the employee to make a major work mistake and was dismissed by the company. She is really scheming. She will quietly praise me in front of her husband, but in the end, she will say, unfortunately, I feel that Sister Lin is very attentive to everything, but not to family matters. My husband was moved by her. When he came back, he was annoyed with me. He asked me to spend more time at home and on the children. Don't always stare at him. Is it okay to say that I didn't put in any effort at home for the things he did himself?
It is said that this junior had an affair with his mentor during his college years. I really don't understand why his husband was deceived by such a habitual junior when he married a wife and a virtuous person? He has officially proposed a divorce to me now, and how can I persuade him to think carefully? He insists that this is the final decision.
After more than ten years of love, it has evolved into this situation. Teacher, do I have any way to make him sober?
Answer:
When a woman looks at a mistress, she only has one idea: hate. Many women don't understand. What tricks did the mistress use to make men feel like giving up on their family? Is it a drink of ecstasy? Of course not. Just as women, the third party understands what men need better and suits their preferences.
In addition, companionship, support, and guardianship are all keywords that cannot be compared to a "fresh" one. Perhaps the same actions, expressed in a different person, will make men feel more innovative and attracted. Now, you must not fall into the ambush of Xiao San. If she has already engaged in a covert war, you need more thought when taking action. If the mistress portrays a proper and intellectual image in front of her husband, no matter how you describe the facts, it will give him the impression of being jealous. We cannot drive away the mistress through suppression. We must make her leave willingly so as not to have a negative impact on your husband and wife's future life or even their current career.
If you are sad, express your sadness. Don't try to interpret another woman to men, they won't listen at this time. Your grievances should be transformed into strength. It is important to firmly believe that this family can return to the right track, and men can change their minds. If they do not want their marriage to fall apart, they need to take it step by step, and do not rush for a moment.