Post Date April, 15 2023
Hello teacher, I have a very painful thing. Please help me. I am 25 years old and my husband is 27 years old. I have been in love for two years and married for one year. I am eight months pregnant now. Just a few days ago, I found that there are nude photos of him and his ex-girlfriend on my husband's mobile phone, which made me cry silently. I questioned him, but he said it was the past. I haven't contacted since I was pregnant. I read their chat records before marriage, It was his ex-girlfriend who asked to see him, and he refused. I was very pleased, but I didn't realize that after 8 months of pregnancy, I found out that I felt so dirty that I couldn't sleep with him in the same bed. But what about the baby in my belly? I now hate him and even hate the baby in my belly. I hate everyone. Her ex-girlfriend has a family, and she was basically pregnant with me. After she became pregnant, they haven't contacted, I consulted the hospital and said it was painful to kill the child. What should I do! What should we do?
reply:
First of all, please don't be too excited and nervous, try to calm your emotions, and don't affect your life of more than 8 months. After all, the child is innocent. Secondly, I don't think your situation is as serious as you think, and isn't your husband also saying that their nude photos are from the past? So, you should first confirm whether your husband is acting before marriage or after marriage. These are two completely different natures. Don't be impulsive first, let alone think about abortion. The fetus is 8 months old. Do you really have the heart to kill a small life? Finally, if this nude photo is really taken by him and his ex-girlfriend before your marriage, it is really not a crime to be angry and collapsed for the little privacy before your husband. Of course, if you really feel unacceptable in your heart, you can discuss with your husband calmly and ask him to delete these photos, express your inner discomfort to him, and ask him to respect and understand your feelings. I think, if your husband really cares about you, He will agree to your request.
