My husband who negotiated with the third party actually said that he and the third party were really in love. Please let them see each other often

After graduating from high school, my husband and I fell in love for 8 years and got married. He was poor and had hepatitis B. At the beginning of their marriage, the two started a business, and then went very smoothly, with some wealth and reputation. I laugh happily every day. I feel that God is too good for me. On the evening of November 10, 2012, my husband was on a business trip in Henan and sent me a message to divorce. When I received the message at 9:00 pm, I drove to find him at 12:00 pm. When I saw him the next morning, he smiled and said to me that he was moved and excited when he was good with others. I was confused, but the response was that he smiled and said to him: I will give you time to deal with it. If you can't do it in two months, it will be two years. We don't divorce, go home. The mistress divorced her husband.

Then there was a dramatic struggle. I never got angry. I would never find someone to beat him or her, or behave disrespectfully, and give my husband enough face in front of everyone. Finally, the third came to negotiate with me and asked me to withdraw. I said three words: First, we will not divorce; Second, if I live, my husband won't have two families; Third, I apologize to you on behalf of my husband and my family. My husband was also present and said to the mistress, "We won't divorce. I can't promise you.". Then he begged me: We really love each other. Please let us see each other often.

The matter is very clear. Half a year later, I got pregnant and gave birth to a second baby. Now the baby is more than two months old, and the third child has also given up. They have not got along with each other before. Now it seems that I have won, but I am very worried and subverted a lot. During the period, others said that I had done my utmost. I pitied Xiao San and paid her half a year's insurance. At her husband's request, I gave her some money to help her find a way out. When I learned that my husband was cheating, I organized my family to travel abroad, buy gifts for my parents-in-law, buy gifts for me, go on business with my husband more often, buy clothes for my husband, and show the third child that we are busy, and the family is very united. At the same time, I forced my husband to do property notarization, and the property and company were all notarized to my son. My husband and I didn't leave any money. I gave my mother-in-law reassurance and said: I will never throw him away. I kept the evidence of my husband's cheating and entrusted it to a reliable person together with the notarial certificate.

I tore them down, but I was hurt. I am kind and devoted to my husband and family. I asked my wife and family to keep silent, not to participate, not to blame my husband, and to ask my brother and sister to respect my brother-in-law more, but I knew how weak I was.

reply:

Hello, as the saying goes, men become bad when they are rich. Your husband turned over from the poor, and began to resist the temptation to betray his wife. Fortunately, he met you, a wise and original wife. As a result, his wife and children were not separated because of his momentary confusion. Therefore, this man should thank you from the bottom of his heart.

The third is more difficult to deal with. Not all women can deal with the third, but you have successfully defeated the third, which is gratifying and commendable. It's just that your husband is very unscrupulous. During your negotiation with the third, he shamelessly said that he and the third are really in love, regardless of other people's feelings, and hurt your heart. Please let them meet each other often. His thick skin is also a wonderful thing.

Maybe, because of deep love, you don't care about the past and don't want to leave, so you try so hard to maintain the integrity of your family. Anyway, you have done it through your own actions. Although it is sad, it is impossible not to get hurt in the marriage defense war. Fortunately, your marriage has been temporarily defended by you, which is also a comfort for you. Here, I advise those men who cheat to feel their conscience and look at their behavior, and not go astray because of temporary temptation; I would like to advise those three men to understand why women are so hard on women. Men who rob others are not good at it. They can only flaunt your inferiority; I hope that all the original partners can be fully intelligent and join in the calm battle of marriage defense.