My husband and I have been married for three years and have no children. We want to work hard for a few more years while we are young. With the material foundation, we can give our children a better life and education. I work in a company as a financial worker, and my husband is struggling in the sales industry. We live separately from our parents-in-law. It is not that I reject living with the elderly, but that they are used to living in the old house with a single family and courtyard. It is very comfortable to play cards and walk.
My husband and I live in our world of two, watching movies, shopping or gathering with friends after work. My husband has a special job. He often travels outside. He can come back in a day or two in a short time, and a week in a long time. I am used to his business trip. Of course, the day without him in the evening is lonely and lonely. Even when he comes back, he is very excited in his heart, and even has the feeling that a farewell is better than a new marriage.
My friend said that you are not afraid to provoke the little fox spirit if you hand over your husband so safely? I was worried about this situation, but my husband comforted me that he worked hard for the family and for the future to give me and my baby a happy life. I was immersed in his sweet words and had no time to listen to others' gossip.
Half a month ago, I helped my husband pack his luggage. He went on a business trip to other places. This trip took about four or five days. After he left, my life was a bit overshadowed. I went to visit my parents-in-law on weekends, and then I asked my girlfriend to go shopping and buy clothes. The season changed immediately, and I felt like I wanted to run naked and had no clothes to wear. After cleaning up in a hurry, my friend and I strolled leisurely. After shopping for about an hour, my girlfriend and I got numb in the legs, bought some snacks and ate while walking.
In a trance, I saw a familiar figure, just holding a sexy woman in my arms. The two people looked like each other. My heart trembled. I was afraid that this was my husband. Before I could react, my girlfriend shook me excitedly, "Isn't that your husband?"? I'm still trying to hide myself, "Are you wrong?".
Regardless of my feelings, she went straight to them. He was wearing a mask, and her friend waved a gesture to me, meaning that I could not see it. She pointed at the phone and asked me to call him. To be honest, I really dare not. If it were him, I would be really embarrassed. I was still hesitating. My girlfriend grabbed my phone and dialed my husband's cell phone. Sure enough, the man's cell phone with a husband's back rang. He looked at it, nervously turned it off, and pulled the woman away with a guilty heart.
My girlfriend looked at me, and I could feel my face burning. What a shame that I met. She repeatedly asked me why I didn't expose him, so he would be more presumptuous. I told her to go home first, and took a taxi home by myself. At the moment I got home, I burst into tears and was in a terrible mood. He called me in the evening, and I pretended to be all right. Then he told me that he would come back tomorrow and the work had been handled. I "boon" and hung up.
I don't know how to face him when he comes back. It has been several days since the incident, and he works normally as usual. I am still immersed in the shadow of his betrayal. Should I unlock his hypocrisy?
Reply from the consultant:
After two people get along for a long time, once the novelty is over, the problems that follow will appear. Your husband has a special job. He often travels in other places and meets all kinds of people. There are many temptations and his loyalty is inevitably affected. You find him flirting with other women, which is very serious. You didn't expose it on the spot, which means that you didn't want the family scandal to be publicized to the world, and you didn't want the family to break up. Find a suitable opportunity to have a talk. You need to be calm and rational to have better judgment. Don't hold back. The longer you drag on, the worse it will be for you.