My husband travels frequently. In order to prevent me from cheating, my mother-in-law guards me like a thief all day

My husband works in real estate. He travels outside all year round. Sometimes he has to stay outside for several days in order to make a deal. We gather less and leave more all the year round. I understand my husband. He also wants to stay with me every day, but life forces him not to violate his last wishes for his career. I didn't complain about him. I knew that such a day would not last forever. My husband and I had entrepreneurial ideas, but we were short of experience and capital. A farewell is better than a wedding. Every time my husband comes home, we are very close.

My father-in-law died early. After marriage, my mother-in-law lived with us. We were married for two years and had no children for the time being. Once my husband left on a business trip, my mother-in-law and I were left alone. Before her retirement, her mother-in-law was a teacher with high quality. We seldom quarreled with each other because of trivial family matters. We cooperated very well in life. However, the older the person is, the more she thinks. Because she is too smart and thinks too much about some things, I am embarrassed and speechless. When she came back from a business trip, she had nothing unusual. Once her husband left, she began to act.

She secretly observed me, ranging from my dress to the conversation between me and my friends and colleagues. What made me more impressed was that she installed a camera at the door of my room. It took me half a month to find out. No wonder she knows exactly what I do. Because of this, I protested with my mother-in-law. What she said made me want to cry. She said that I was good-looking and knowledgeable. I was very happy to hear that. Next, I will listen to it. My anger is slowly rising.

She went on to say that she took my birthday and calculated it outside. The fortune-teller said that we should guard against the good-looking women in our family and be careful of the red apricot coming out of the wall. Therefore, she did this to save my husband's marriage. Didn't she say that I would cheat? I am ashamed that I thought she was a teacher of the people, with high quality. How could she believe in feudal superstition! I called my husband and told him about my mother-in-law's peeping at me and installing the camera, and asked him to come back to deal with this matter.

As soon as my husband stepped into the door, my mother-in-law cried after her heels came out, which really scared me. She cried and said, "My son, your father died early. I took pains for this family. I just cared about your daughter-in-law, and she scolded me for peeping.". I'm such an old man, and I bother all day. What do I want. My husband was also scared by his mother-in-law, so he could only coax his mother to talk slowly. Teacher, you can judge why the old man is so busy now. Our husband and wife have a good relationship. We just let her do this. If it goes on like this, I must be nervous. What should I do?

Reply from the consultant:

The older you are, the more ideas you have. You are beautiful and have been separated from your husband for a long time. It is also a normal idea for her to worry about you being abducted by others. However, the normal idea does something abnormal. Peeping at you, installing cameras, and fortune-telling are really annoying. From the standpoint of the old man, think carefully. You have been separated for a long time, and your relationship can not be consolidated. It is easy to split. She is also considering your marriage. So at the moment your husband enters the door, she will lose her temper and complain about grievances.

It is suggested that you communicate and talk about your thoughts. Your father-in-law died early, and the old man retired at home with nothing to do, and his brain will think wildly. You can add a grandson for her. In this way, she is busy taking care of her grandson, which will naturally reduce her attention to you, and help you take care of your child while her mother-in-law is young, so that you can do business with ease. Of course, the best way is to end this separation earlier, so that the old man can rest assured and your relationship will be stable. I wish you happiness.