Post Date December, 03 2023
I want to talk about my marital life. My husband and I are working together in another city, and our current life is still decent. I am the type of mother wife, and my business is also a solid support for him. At home and in the store, he is not allowed to manage it. He is the one who extends his hand to eat and keeps his mouth open.
I am very indulgent towards him. Three years ago, he was with a woman and we almost got divorced. In the end, I forgave him. He is that kind of male chauvinist, and now he has been confused with another woman for almost two years. I have always been patient. I want to use my tolerance to save my parents and children from arguing with them, but he doesn't care at all.
We have two daughters, both brought up by their parents, and I am very grateful to them. I have also thought about divorce, after all, divorce can do a lot of harm to children. My eldest daughter is already 13 years old. I haven't had sex with him for over a year now, and I live a very oppressive life every day. What do you think I should do?
reply:
1. For a man who cheats, I personally believe that the first time he cheats, he can be forgiven, but there is still a second time, he must never indulge again, otherwise, he will continue to betray endlessly;
2. Tolerance cannot save a man's infidelity. Tolerance is only given to men who understand introspection and regret, and your man seems not to be. If he is not grateful or virtuous, why get used to his food;
3. For the sake of your child, you can choose to endure humiliation, but you need a strong heart. If you can't do it willingly, don't force yourself. Suppressing illness can be counterproductive. First, you lose your healthy body, and second, if you suddenly fall down, your child will lose your care;
4. Suggestion: Don't rely on a man to live your life. To gain the respect of a man, you must quickly become strong and possess dual independence in both spirit and economy, in order to bid farewell to watching others' faces from now on. Without changing or strengthening oneself, one can only endure the hardships of enduring humiliation along this path. Are you willing to continue like this?
