Post Date December, 03 2023
This time I quarreled with my husband again for a simple reason:
"After giving birth to the baby, my husband began to snub me and refused to have sex with me. I don't want to say that my husband is bad, because I'm afraid that I can't finish dozens of pages of our previous words, but I really have no way."
Now that the baby is five months old, it has been helped by my parents-in-law all the time. My husband and I work at work. My husband works in a business unit. He always talks to the computer every day after work. He seldom holds the baby, because he thinks the baby is taken by his parents, and he never does housework at home.
From pregnancy to now, I have never done it. In his mind, I should do it. I love my husband, but I can't tolerate that he only looks at the computer every day and doesn't care about me. Originally, when his parents are not there, I still go to play with him and kiss him in front of the computer. But now that his parents are there and there are babies, I am ashamed to do this again, and I just know at this time, If I don't do it, we won't be like husband and wife. There is no language to talk about and no skin relationship
What's more, I'm really embarrassed to ask, but I want to know whether I'm abnormal or my husband is abnormal. We rarely have a couple life once a month, and we rarely persist for one minute at a time. He said that other men are like this
I have realized with my husband that for three years now, there has been no so-called orgasm since the birth of the baby. Every time I am afraid of hurting my husband's heart, I have to fake orgasm. My husband always comes directly and never has any prelude. Most of the time, we have ended our sex life without touching our lips.
I'm going crazy. Since the baby was five months old, 90% of me have been making love with my husband, and more than half of them have been rejected by him. I thought my husband was shy, so I still worked hard to learn how to "seduce" him and tease him with a woman's way as stated in the post on the computer. But he always said he didn't want to do it, was tired, and so on. After so many rejection, I really don't know what to do.
Sometimes I feel like I'm splashed. I thought that he would be interested in kissing him first to tease him, as said in the post on the book, but it still doesn't work, because he would push me down when I climbed onto him to tease him intentionally and intoxicated. I'm tired and don't want to do it. God, I haven't done it for half a month, and I have cried secretly many times. I'm not the ugly and bad person, But what the hell is going on
The bitterness in my heart told me that I never harbored a public affair, which is impossible, and I also believe that he loves me, but he never expressed it, nor did he know how to love me, and how to face the computer every day. What should I do?
Dear friends, am I wrong? What's the matter with my husband? How can I catch his heart?
