My husband is not behaving properly, and I am angry and never return home at night, but I am criticized by my mother-in-law

Q:

Ask: What can women do if men cannot manage themselves well?

My husband has fulfilled the truth that men become worse when they have money. Previously, we opened a shop and our business gradually improved. We had children and women, a house and a car, and we were a very happy family. However, after six months, I found that my husband began to dislike going home and didn't stay at home for about three or four days a week. He said he had to socialize and was busy with work.

At the beginning, I could understand his behavior. After all, it was for work, but for a long time, I began to be very dissatisfied with his behavior, and kept communicating with him, but it could not be resolved. A month or two ago, because of anger, I also went out to spend the night, but what I did not expect was that my husband and his mother asked us to divorce in front of the company employees the next day, saying that I was indiscreet and stayed out overnight!

I'm really going to collapse. I just spent the night out in anger. Unexpectedly, his mother suspected that I was indiscreet. It's her husband and her son!! This makes me very sad. I dare not say that I am very kind to my mother-in-law, but I am still filial. I never expected to receive such a result after giving. Does she think it's okay if her son is outside every day?

My husband didn't help me speak. Looking at his expression, he still thought his mother was reasonable. At present, we haven't divorced, but my heart is cold. My feelings for my husband have changed. I can't respect my husband and his parents at the bottom of my heart. The life of my husband and wife has begun to be disharmonious. Instead, I feel disgusted with my husband when he is at home. I hope he is not at home. I can be quiet alone, and my mood fluctuates greatly, Can we continue this marriage?

Answer:

There is certainly a problem between you and your husband, but your mistake is that you did not handle the relationship with him well and even implicated your mother-in-law. Managing the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a discipline, and there may be a generation gap between two generations. In our understanding, staying overnight outside does not represent anything. However, in the mother-in-law's understanding, she may think that staying overnight outside is a sign of misconduct, which is why there is such a strong reaction. Therefore, it is recommended that you understand and forgive from the mother-in-law's perspective.

When dealing with your relationship, your husband's role is very important. He is a bridge in the family relationship, so it is recommended that your husband take the initiative to handle the family relationship. If conditions permit, you can bring your husband together for a consultation. You don't need to worry about whether your husband will reject or resist. If you feel that there is still a glimmer of hope in the marriage, let Weiqing help you.