Post Date December, 03 2023
I always thought that as long as he could break up with the woman outside, I would continue to live with him. But he has disappointed me time and time again.
During my pregnancy, my husband had a hot fight with a woman, but due to the lack of energy during pregnancy and the fact that the baby has been taken care of by myself since birth, I don't have time to take care of him. We have talked a few times. Every time he denies having a woman outside. I am also indifferent to my baby and have not fulfilled my responsibilities as a father. The baby is not very healthy and needs to go to Shanghai for treatment, so he refused to go with him twice.
I traveled all the way to Shanghai alone with my child and milk powder, which was not difficult. During our treatment in Shanghai, he took the woman on a trip.
This year, he opened a shop in a different place and found reasons not to go home when he had nothing to do. Later on, it was discovered that he had established another home over there. We slept in separate beds from conception until our baby was one year old. He didn't touch me, saying he felt guilty towards me. It's so ridiculous. After sleeping with a woman, he came back feeling guilty towards me. After feeling guilty, he went to her to seek comfort.
He said he really likes that woman and feels like he should have known her since his previous life. But I never thought about marrying her, nor did I plan to divorce her. He said that being with women is very easy, very coquettish, and very persuasive. He enjoys it very much.
I am very disappointed. If he has a repentant heart, I will continue to live with him for the sake of the baby. There's nothing I can do now. He's stubborn and I don't want to live like this anymore. I just feel that the baby is very pitiful and unable to give her a complete home feels very sad.
Ms. Zhao:
Why does a woman become a resentful woman? She gives herself too many reasons for divorce, and also gives herself too many excuses for not getting divorced. Then she sprinkles some desserts on the edge of the knife, causing pain and sweetness for a while, but ultimately this is not the result.
Your patience is not about the happiness of your children, but about treating them as poison in your marriage. If you are afraid of them, others will also be afraid of them. Everyone will adapt to life, rather than life adapting to you.
If you give him an unhappy family, it's better to give him some complete happiness. Even if you love him, you can endure it. What will happen to you? You will endure it as a mindless and resentful woman, and occasionally you will become supernatural and scold a man. The outcome can only prove that you cannot do without him. You must endure it and bear it for the so-called family. The child is innocent, and you are an unconscious woman who is bound by innocence.
In today's society, everyone has a heart of infidelity. Are you trying to maintain this family for the sake of your children or for your own sake? If your marriage goes wrong, do you still have a heart for keeping it.
Divorce is not achieved by a man's infidelity, but by being able to truly become independent and love oneself.
Sleeping in the same bed and having a fearful life, are you suffering or not yourself? If you withdraw early now, you can still find a good future for yourself and your children. Our experts will guide you on how to strive for the maximum rights for yourself in the event of divorce.
