My husband is always distracted when having sex with me. I accidentally saw him chatting on his mobile phone, so I slapped him in the face

"We can't be as close as falling in love. I feel quite aggrieved in my heart.". As time went by, I adapted to this kind of life. When he was on a business trip, I arranged his luggage and escorted him out. Personally, this is what a wife should do, rather than feeling sad all day for the sake of children and children. Life was bumpy, and we spent two years safely. My support for my husband's work has led him to a promotion and a further step in his career.

This year, I told him that I wanted a child, and while I was young and recovering quickly, he was away all year round, and I wasn't alone with a child. He felt that what I said was reasonable and agreed to my request. After that, every time he comes back from a business trip, I have to rack my brains to make the couple's life happy. However, I feel that he is somewhat powerless, with his two bodies glued together, and he often achieves half distraction. "I don't understand what has occupied his heart, but he comforted me by saying that the pace of life is too fast, the pressure of work is too great, and I am too tired.".

"I understand him and try not to disagree with him, but if he does, my wish to have a child cannot be realized.". "I complained to him that he didn't care about his family for the sake of his career. He was angry and said that standing and talking didn't hurt his back. He has earned me every penny in these years, and I still want to know what else.". After the dispute, we began a cold war, with almost no marital life. He is still on business as usual, and I am alone at home guarding an empty room, making my heart increasingly uncomfortable.

"My husband and wife are separated from each other, and there are significant differences in their values and family values. Our relationship is getting worse and worse. I reflected on myself and decided to live a good life with him.". That day, when he returned from a business trip, I prepared a sumptuous dinner. He was greatly flattered, and I prepared red wine for him. After a few drinks, his face turned red and he became more talkative. After taking a bath, I put on my pajamas and teased him on the bed.

As I was preparing for warmth, his mobile phone kept ringing. Suddenly, I picked up the phone and he sat up nervously. I opened the phone and saw someone send him a WeChat message: "Honey, have you slept yet? When did you come to see me?... When did you divorce your wife? I'm really impatient..." I dumbfounded and asked him what was the situation. He hesitated and didn't speak, highlighting a few words for a while, a woman I met on a business trip, It's just a scene.

"I suddenly lost control of my emotions, and my tears were like broken beads. I slapped him hard on the face, but he didn't say a word.". Over the years, I have been guarding his family for him, but he has given me a blow. The thought of the grievances of these years makes my heart ache. Now, what am I supposed to do?

Reply from the maintenance consultant:

The separation of husband and wife from each other is a threat to marriage. A man needs physical venting, and in between, you complain that he doesn't accompany you. Over time, he gets used to being silent about your complaints, and at the same time, he gets used to the tenderness and consideration of women outside. The core factor of the conflict is that it stems from your separation. If you still miss this marriage, please end this separation early, reflect on each other, and communicate with each other.