Post Date December, 02 2023
[Q]
On my birthday, my husband didn't accompany me and said that he was on a business trip (he didn't remember my birthday at all. I called him and he told me that he had forgotten that he was on a business trip and came back to make up for me). But I don't believe it, because he has been found with that woman before, and I'm afraid it's the same this time. As a result, I checked his list and found that he didn't leave. He was here. I went downstairs to the woman's house and saw them go out together.
I talked to him in the evening and said that I didn't want to check him any more. No matter what, I just had to live a good life and cut it off. However, the next night, he said that he would not go home to work overtime. I followed him and later asked my mother-in-law to go to the woman's home to catch her. At first, I didn't admit it, but later admitted it and said that I would not be disconnected.
But after ten days, he went to the woman's house again, and let me know. He begged me to give him one last chance, but now I don't know what to do.
[Answer]
You are confused because divorce is not the result you want to see.
When we encounter problems, we all hope to have a conclusion. You prefer that he can return. As long as he is clean with the outside world, he can live wholeheartedly. Your request is not excessive and reasonable. It's a pity that his cheating is a big problem for you. It's nothing at all for him. He doesn't think he is wrong in his heart. At most, he feels that his wife has found out and the secret information can't be hidden. You always come to make trouble.
The third person lives alone, which provides convenience for them to have fun and even saves the room fee. He is not a man who can restrain his original impulse. What's more, the third party just wants to have a man instead of him.
Even his mother-in-law was involved, and the impact of what he did was quite embarrassing. But the closest family members failed to awaken his sense of responsibility and conscience. It can be imagined how fragile his promise to improve was.
Every time he is found by you, he will ask for forgiveness and will ask you to give him a last chance. In fact, you have given him too many "last chances". There is no substantive punishment for stealing, and he muddles through the oral review again and again, time after time, endless.
There is no way out. He can't control his legs and legs running to the third party. He can find a way to make the third party close the door and refuse him. It doesn't matter that the other party is not afraid of anything. If you negotiate with her, I'm afraid it will be difficult to achieve the desired effect, or even counterproductive. Professional things are left to professional people. The junior can't be persuaded in a few words. There are many ways to separate the junior. We can help you.
