We have watched videos of the wife beating the mistress on countless websites. The wife is constantly in hysteria, constantly using methods she thinks can insult the mistress to save her love, but the results are often surprising: the mistress wins.
The actions of the legitimate wife seen in the video are actually very common in life, and some may not be as high. The legitimate wife is just hysterical and crying in front of her cheating husband, constantly complaining like a resentful woman.
The most elegant woman I have ever seen in my life is my aunt, a 37 year old housewife. Her attire is always at the forefront of fashion, and she has cooked a good dish. Before giving birth to a child, she was a hotel executive with high education, high quality, and high appearance.
Such a woman encountered a Waterloo of love at the age of 32, in her fourth year of giving birth to a child. All the relatives in the family said they must give your uncle a good look, seize the mistress, and give him a good look.
But she managed to calm down and say, 'If our marriage goes wrong, it's also related to me.'.
At that time, all the relatives in the family thought that the little aunt was too sad and didn't want to take measures. The relatives in the family felt that hatred was not strong enough, so they followed her.
I originally thought that based on the common personality traits of my relatives in the family, my aunt would definitely not let go of my uncle. However, I didn't expect my aunt to do anything but chat with him all night with an understanding attitude.
Auntie and uncle said that she knows that they have been together for almost 10 years since they fell in love, and their love has almost dissipated. Therefore, when faced with temptation, it is difficult to directly refuse.
My aunt said a lot of things that made my uncle feel particularly guilty, and we also reminisced about the past together.
Of course, one conversation is not enough to make my uncle completely forget my mistress. My aunt still cooks my uncle's favorite dishes and takes the children out to play. When my uncle comes home, he feels the warmth of the family.
In terms of dressing up, the little aunt is more attentive than before. Faced with such a little aunt, the third couldn't hold her breath and argued with her uncle. The uncle decisively gave up the third and returned to his family.
Auntie understood her uncle's attitude, and he felt the warmth of his family, making him feel that his wife, who had been with him for many years, still understood him.
The biggest tragedy I have ever seen is the story between my uncle and grandmother. After my uncle's infidelity, my uncle and grandmother caught all the relatives in bed and took my mistress on a stroll.
At that time, the two had already had a pair of children, and the cultural level of their uncle was higher than that of their grandmother. The people themselves had no common language, and after this incident, they also felt that they had no face in their hometown.
So she divorced and went to Shenzhen to work hard on her own, and the final outcome of the story is that ten years later, her uncle and grandmother got married to another man. Her uncle and mistress have been together, but the two have not married.
The fact that the two said there was no relationship is false, it is because they did not understand each other, which led to the breakdown of their marriage.
Whether it's a man cheating or a woman cheating, if you want to save your marriage, you must first be yourself and maintain a rational attitude to save this relationship with understanding.
Only with an attitude of understanding can one speak deeply rooted words and make the other person feel the importance of you in their heart.
Whether it's love or marriage, it's all based on mutual understanding and understanding. Especially when one party makes a mistake, the other party must handle it with an understanding attitude. This way, the offending party will feel more guilty and cherish this relationship from the heart. Understanding is actually a form of wisdom, a courage for the prodigal son to turn around.