Post Date December, 03 2023
Let me tell you something particularly disturbing. My husband is out of his wits recently, and I don't know what kind of evil he is. One night, I was thirsty and was getting ready to get up and pour water. As a result, I heard my husband call my girlfriend's name in his sleep. At that time, I didn't believe it. I thought it was my ear.
I listened closely and found that he was calling my best friend's name. I was shocked. I quickly drank a cup of water pressure to calm down. Later, I began to deliberately observe the relationship between my husband and his girlfriend. As a result, I found that as long as there was a girl friend present, my husband's eyes never left my girl friend.
My best friend also seems to be full of ambiguous feelings towards my husband. Their various flirtations make me feel angry. Wutong, do you think I should ask my husband directly, or check his mobile phone and collect evidence of his cheating with my girlfriend? I'm so tangled
Reply:
Now that you have seen that your husband and your girlfriend are having an affair, and even your husband starts calling your girlfriend's name in his sleep, do you think it is necessary to check your husband's mobile phone again?! Don't you do this to add more traffic.
So, for you, the most important thing is to find a suitable place to talk openly with your husband. Some things can't be explained clearly by you alone. Because many things are qualitative changes caused by quantitative changes on weekdays. You don't have to worry about the so-called evidence anymore. The scenes you see are living evidence.
I advise you to make a psychological preparation, that is, your husband has cheated with your best friend. Even if he doesn't cheat physically, he has cheated spiritually. So, you should think clearly whether you want to live with your husband or not. If the answer is no, it's easy to handle. You can directly pick it out with your husband, and then go through the divorce procedure directly; If the answer is yes, that is to say, even if you know that your husband has cheated and betrayed you, you are willing to live with your husband and don't want to divorce him, then you can do your husband's ideological work well, let him recognize your greatness and loveliness again, and let him completely break the ambiguous relationship with your girlfriend. This obviously needs to be supported by your past years of marriage and love.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
