Post Date December, 02 2023
My husband and I have been married for seven years. In the first year of marriage, he played with the woman who learned to drive together. In the second year, he had an affair with a woman who sold cars. Later, he had an affair with his primary school classmate who had been "separated" for many years until now. He was wrong in causing this situation today, but I also admit that I have a problem. I am too weak to make up my mind to divorce. He wants me to find a man who loves me and divorce him. What should I do?
reply:
Judging from your confidences, your husband obviously has no feelings for you at all, so why do you stay with others. Since you know that you are weak, why don't you try to be strong? No matter love or marriage, it will not stay with you because of your entanglement. Even if you stay, it will not be a happy feeling, but it will be scarred.
I don't know if you are so aggrieved because you are not financially independent. You need to depend on him materially. If so, you should be stronger and independent. Otherwise, you will never have your own dignity and respect. A man has been cheating again and again. Either he doesn't feel good about you or he takes you seriously. Is this marital status what you want?
So, in the face of this man who doesn't love you, first of all, you should learn to be self-reliant, at least work independently to earn money and support yourself; Second, don't be a slave to feelings. Don't be a slave in an unhappy marriage. Let yourself be free and easy, master your own destiny, face yourself again, and find your own happiness.
