Post Date December, 03 2023
Through a friend's introduction, I met my current husband. The day we met was Valentine's Day, and we fell in love at first sight. One year later, on Valentine's Day, my husband bought a commercial house in my name and gave it to me as a gift. As a woman, both material and spiritual aspects were greatly satisfied. Therefore, my husband and I obtained a marriage certificate.
After marriage, life was sweet and sweet, and with the birth of my son, life became even more beautiful. The arrival of the little angel once brought the family to the pinnacle of happiness. However, happiness is always short-lived, and soon after, many things gradually changed due to trivial life and work changes. The pressure from all parties made me feel a bit depressed. But my husband is addicted to alcohol and doesn't stay at home at night. With a woman outside, he lost interest in me and this family, and lost his sense of responsibility as a husband and father. I have tried to persuade and make trouble, but it's useless. When we can't bear it anymore, we talk about divorce. To be honest, we went in and out three times at the gate of the Civil Affairs Bureau, but for various reasons, we were unable to leave smoothly.
I thought he would slightly restrain himself, but he still lingered between two women. Finally, I couldn't bear it anymore and dialed the girl's phone. To my surprise, the girl didn't know that her husband was married and didn't even know about my existence. She thought that the man was just her and only loved her. After listening to my story, the girl sobbed on the other end of the phone. I knew that another heart had been crushed to pieces, and the culprit was Hai Feng. Perhaps some people think that my move is not wise, but I can no longer care so much. I must let everyone know about Haifeng's despicability and his shamelessness. Only in this way can I find balance in my heart.
My husband knew that I had ended their relationship, feeling exhausted and depressed for a few days. He complained to me and I called him a deserved punishment. People are invincible when they are lowly. In the end, in order to retain that girl, Hai Feng actually played a game of self harm and stabbed himself with a knife. After hearing this, I just feel childish and ridiculous. Oh my goodness, what happened to me in the first place, how could I fall in love with such a wicked man with limited intelligence?
Ms. Chen:
Breaking up is a very heavy task, which requires cutting off and clarifying the relationship between the two, and drawing a complete conclusion both emotionally and in terms of procedures. Obviously, your acquaintance with your husband is based on a material foundation. He buys you gifts, houses, and your heart. To be honest, such feelings are not solid. Several divorces have not been realized, regardless of whether there is emotion or not. In short, legally speaking, there has been no contact to truly dissolve the marital relationship. Therefore, he should not linger between two women, nor even have any intention of ending with either party. Perhaps he intends to enjoy the happiness of everyone, but both legally and morally, he puts himself in the most shameless position. Your husband hurt two women at the same time, and for him, the final outcome can only be empty handed.
