My good sister sneaked into my home while I was on a business trip, making trouble with my husband and being hit by me

Yun is my college best friend. Back then, we had a particularly good relationship, neither of us had a romantic relationship, and we were misunderstood as "lesbians.". Five years have passed since I graduated from college, and I have already married. The arrogant Yun is still single. We often talk on the phone, and I joke with her, "If you don't marry yourself off, you'll have to leave.". "She disapproved, 'The rest is left, it's better than casually marrying a man.'". Sometimes, I envy her stubborn personality, and no one can stop her from doing anything she wants.

"My husband and I have been married for more than four years, and our marriage was introduced by a matchmaker. I like men who are bigger than themselves. Such men are masculine, know how to protect women, and have a sense of security.". The first time I saw my husband, he was over a meter tall and his handsome face revealed a man's composure. "I clearly felt his affection for me. It took only half a year for us to get married. After a few years of marriage, our relationship has been warming up continuously over the past few years. I feel particularly happy and plan to add a new baby to my family.".

That day, I received a phone call from Yun that she was coming to Shanghai for development. I was very happy to hear that. After graduation, we haven't seen each other for a long time. After she arrived, I naturally made a "friendship with the landlord" and invited her to a meal. On the table, I felt like my husband had looked at Yun unnaturally several times. Yun also felt his husband staring at him, his face flushed. I glared at him a few times to hint at him not to lose his composure, and he just regained his composure. I helped Yun rent a house not far from my home, which is convenient for communication. Sometimes when I cook delicious food, I call on her and teach her some simple cooking skills. After a long time, everyone is familiar with it, and the three of us get along very harmoniously.

When I work overtime, my girlfriend buys vegetables and goes to my house to cook. She eats until I come back. Sometimes when I'm on a business trip, I ask my girlfriend to take care of my husband's food. I trusted them too much and didn't even consider going beyond the bottom line and damaging my family. That weekend, the leader arranged for me to go on a business trip, which took up my rest day on a hot day. I was particularly reluctant, and due to my lack of respect, I bravely agreed. It happened that there was one more place for business trips, so I was removed.

I was so happy in my heart that I hurried home. In the shoe cabinet, a pair of familiar shoes came into my eyes, which were Yun's. I vaguely heard the sound of babbling. The bedroom door was half closed, and I looked through the crack of the door. My husband and Yun were naked on our double bed. "My mouth widened in surprise. They saw me suddenly come back and were scared to roll off the bed and hurry to get dressed. Yun told me not to get angry at this moment and listen to her explanation.". Everything is in front of her. What else does she want to explain?

The feeling of being betrayed is as painful as a thousand swords penetrating the heart. "I told them to get out, and Yun quickly left our house. My husband couldn't say a word when he saw my collapse, squatting in the corner and stealing glances at me.". Yun sent me a text message that couldn't be separated from the words "I'm sorry". She left and left the city. She said she didn't have the face to see me and let me live a good life with her husband. This kind of thing happened completely because she couldn't help it and had nothing to do with my husband. Recently, I have been in a trance, with love and friendship at the same time. I understand that I cannot give up, but how can I vent my anger and grievances. "I'm so frustrated, I don't even know what decision I should make. Please help me..."

Reply from the maintenance consultant:

The most confusing thing in the world is that love and friendship betray themselves at the same time, and the double betrayal strikes the heart. Losing trust in two people is also a torment for oneself. From your account, there are also a large part of the reasons for your husband and girlfriend's cheating:

First, you rent your girlfriend's house near you, making it easier for you to meet, while also speeding up the pace of acquaintances between your girlfriend and husband;

Second, you often give them the opportunity to get along alone, such as when you are on a business trip and have your girlfriend take care of your husband's diet. You know, the cultivation of emotions is accumulated bit by bit from life, and you create this opportunity.

Some men use their lower bodies to think things over, and if their girlfriends are slightly seduced, they will quickly become hooked. From the moment your best friend enters your home, you should consider this and try to avoid contact with them. As for you, you treat your best friend as another person, but you ignore that she is a woman and still single. Single women are inevitably lonely. With a man who has a good feeling for himself and such a good opportunity, it is difficult not to cheat.

At present, he has recognized his own mistakes, and your best friend has also learned to leave. Adjust your mood appropriately. If others make mistakes, you should not torture yourself. Life still needs to continue, let yourself learn to enjoy life, work not too hard, travel appropriately to relax and be better for yourself. The inability to let go of marriage is left to time to repair. Misconduct is a psychological war that requires a price to be paid. The longer the time, the stronger the psychological guilt of the cheating party will become. However, whoever loses his mind is the loser. In short, it's good to have a clear conscience. As for the fate of marriage, everything depends on the situation.