Post Date December, 02 2023
There are always thousands of solutions behind the problem, but not every method is a hundred tries and one hundred tricks, and the same is true when it comes to saving your girlfriend who just abandoned you. Firstly, we need to take a look at which methods are not effective, but many people are using them. In the end, it takes time, effort, and money, but it still fails. These methods that should be despised by us are:
1. Use a bitter meat meter. Throughout history, this tactic has often appeared in many occasions, but when it comes to saving a girlfriend, it can exacerbate her contempt for you. A man cannot protect a woman well, and it's enough. Don't use a pitiful posture to win her sympathy. If you do succeed at first, her sympathy will quickly fade and she will leave you again.
2. Express your love for her in various ways. Many male friends will do everything possible to express their love for them when they are in a breakup, but most of them end up being rejected again. Why? If a woman really needs to be expressed for love, then when she leaves you, she can see that you didn't express enough before, but now suddenly express too much. She will hold a skeptical attitude to some extent. Of course, she may accept you when moved, but when she turns around, she may regret her decision to accept you, because being moved is not equal to love.
3. Keep explaining your previous mistakes or saying 'I was wrong'. Many love theories teach us that saying more 'I was wrong' can make our girlfriend realize your love for her, but the prerequisite is that you have broken up now. Any amount of 'I was wrong' you say is of no use and can even push her further away.
4. Pessimism. In fact, this state is similar to using a bitter meat counter, which will make girls look down on you from the bottom of their hearts.
Alright, the above four inappropriate methods, I believe many male friends will call out when they see them, because really many people only use the above four techniques. Years of emotional counseling experience have shown that the correct way to save a girlfriend is to try other basic methods besides the four unsuitable ones mentioned above. For example, occasionally sending a message to greet and express one's thoughts, appearing in front of her in a subtle way, and maintaining a rational and optimistic attitude.
The six or seven hundred words in the front roughly give a male friend who has been heartbroken a direction to save his girlfriend. Next, we will say an important message. No matter what method you use to save your ex girlfriend, this message is the foundation, just like going to the battlefield. The method is your gun, and this important message is your bullet.
To save your ex girlfriend, you need to have a comprehensive understanding of her. If you don't know her, you won't know her needs, and there's no way to meet her. Naturally, saving is doomed to failure. Actually, understanding is not difficult. If you were truly in love in the past, you should try to recall the little things you had together before, and gradually make some piecing together. To some extent, you will have a clear understanding of this girlfriend. Even if these understandings are superficial, they can temporarily help you.
