My divorced girlfriend drifted alone to apply for a job. I took her kindly, but saw her and my husband's dirty side

My husband and I were introduced to each other. Our relationship is very good. We have been married for three years without children. We want to take advantage of our youth to fight for a career and have children. After three years of hard work, we have our own house. We originally planned to have a love crystallization in the next step. However, the arrival of our best friend broke our plan and pushed our marriage to the abyss.

Three months ago, I received a call from my good friend Shanshan. She is my good friend from primary school to high school. She was admitted to different schools in college, and she has little contact. But when she comes home during the New Year, she will have dinner and sing karaoke. It is also WeChat at ordinary times, and seldom calls. I was a little surprised when I received her call. At the end of the phone, she exchanged a few words with me and then explained the reason for the call. She said that she was divorced.

I was surprised that she got married after graduation. She was the target of the family. She was ten years older than her and very rich. I also attended the wedding. It was luxurious and envious. Next, she said that her ex-husband had taken care of her lover and had also committed violence against her. She filed for divorce. Although the divorce has divided a fortune, it is not much. She wants to work to support herself. She wants to find me. She only has me as a friend.

My friend is in trouble and should lend a hand. I didn't refuse her. She got on the train and ran to me. I haven't seen her for several years. She is still so beautiful and moving, but the changes in her marriage have made her haggard. I took her to my home. I was thinking of renting a house for her and helping her find a job. It was also the utmost kindness. Who knows that she doesn't mention the matter of renting a house? I'm ashamed to speak first.

She is busy going to the interview every day. Half a month later, she said that she found the right job and could be self-reliant immediately. She moved away when she found the right house. Thank me very much during this time. I am happy for her. I am very relieved that she will move away. It is inconvenient to live together. Although it is a two-room apartment, the sound insulation is not good. My husband and I dare not make a noise at night.

I didn't expect that my girlfriend and husband could sleep together without saying a few words.

My girlfriend originally said that she would move away in recent days, but I happened to be on a business trip, so she wanted to have a breakup dinner, so she waited for me to come back from my business trip. I shortened my planned three-day business trip to two days. I brought a gift to my girlfriend. When I got home late at night, I took a taxi by myself and didn't let my husband pick me up. I originally wanted to surprise them two, but I didn't know what they gave me was shock.

My husband and girlfriend were sleeping soundly in our bedroom. They hugged each other and threw their clothes on the floor in disorder. The room was full of alcohol, and they drank. My husband woke up when he heard the noise and saw me coming in panicked. He packed his clothes in a panic. My girlfriend opened her hazy eyes. When she saw me, she immediately woke up and put on her clothes to explain to me, saying that they were bored and drank wine, and then she knew nothing. I looked at the wine bottle on the ground and found that my husband would not be drunk at all with his drinking capacity, which was completely an excuse.

The next day, her girlfriend moved away and left me a letter. She wrote a piece of paper full of apologies and confessions, but I couldn't accept it. I helped her and gave her shelter from the wind and rain when she had no fixed place to live, and her reward for me was to get involved with my husband. I can't accept this fact and swallow it. After three years of marriage, my husband can't resist the temptation of a woman. I have no sense of security. I really want to divorce and leave. What should I do?

Reply from the consultant:

The best friend is also a woman. There is jealousy between women. You bring her home, which is tantamount to bringing wolves into the house, and you become the biggest victim among them. You helped her and stabilized her work. She took advantage of your business trip to drink with your husband and have sex with him.

It is impossible for a normal person to get drunk with a friend's husband without a hostess. She can't understand when drinking. Now, things have become this situation. First, the woman is too jealous. Second, your husband is not strong enough to withstand temptation. At present, I suggest you stay away from your best friend and remember this lesson. For your marriage, if you don't want to break up, you should communicate with your husband well, watch his performance, and use time to resolve the bitterness in your heart.