Post Date December, 03 2023
Orgasm is not only physical satisfaction, but also psychological satisfaction
The satisfaction of sexual organs can not be achieved only by "pattern", and the satisfaction of sexual psychology can also be achieved by the use of honey. For those of you who are too close, "distance will produce beauty". You should pay more attention to each other's inner things, and pay attention to spiritual integration, instead of using "sex" as a tool to satisfy each other.
Q: My husband and I always have a variety of styles in our sex life. We like to try various postures. There are many steps in each process from the front play to the back play. Gradually, although my husband worked hard and added steps every time, I was too familiar with all this. Before he started, I knew what he was going to do and how to do it. The more he expected, the more disappointed he was. We could hardly reach the climax.
With the increasing number of patterns, why does the climax decrease instead?
A: Your question is to regard orgasm as the only purpose of sexual life. If we only regard it as coming from meat
If the body is intoxicated, but there is no echo of the soul, or there is no emotional color, then sexual life will become a simple skill movement, and it is easy to fall into the trouble that the more you expect the climax, the more disappointed you will be.
It should be understood that orgasm is a psychological process in addition to physical satisfaction. The satisfaction of sexual organs can not be achieved only by "pattern", but also by the use of honey. For those of you who are too close, "distance will produce beauty". You should pay more attention to each other's inner things, and pay attention to spiritual integration, instead of using "sex" as a tool to satisfy each other.
Maybe your steps are too procedural, which reduces the mystery of sex on both sides. In fact, in every sexual life, including the time of foreplay, the location of sensitive areas, and the environment, there should be different changes. We should try to break the stereotyped steps and make the sexual life full of freshness, so that it is easier for both to reach orgasm.
At the same time, you should pay attention to the use of sexual skills. Foreplay is not only the husband's business. Although male sexual arousal is easier, it does not mean that foreplay is not necessary at all. You should properly stimulate the husband, but also grasp the scale of stimulation, and let the husband learn to control the time of his own orgasm to achieve synchronization.
(Intern editor: Cai Junyi)
