Post Date December, 02 2023
More than 80% of married men and women have a non sexual infidelity mentality, which means that outside of marriage, many people have relatively close opposite sex. These opposite sex individuals may not induce you to truly cheat, but this is another harbor for you, a resting place for your soul.
A survey shows that 83.19% of women and 84.44% of men admit to having close opposite sex friends outside of marriage. A large community of 'non sexual infidelity' is forming, and this seemingly harmless heterosexual relationship may have a heavier emotional weight, but it is only one step away from infidelity.
Since its inception, the term 'sexual infidelity' has been almost equivalent to 'an unethical hat'. In ancient China, this behavior was called adultery, and at that time, the punishment for adulterers was extremely harsh, so it was generally not lightly spoken. Due to the strict punishment measures, there is an old saying in China that goes, "If you catch a thief, you will find stolen goods, and if you catch a traitor, you will find both." It contains a strong "sexual" color. Since the core of sexual infidelity is sexual relationships, what about non sexual infidelity?
For a long time, different people have different understandings of what "sex" is, but almost all women agree that the most hidden body part is "sex". The most secretive body parts that do not come into contact with the most secretive parts of a man are not considered sexual infidelity as long as they do not exceed the final limit, and can only be called "non sexual infidelity".
Although non sexual infidelity individuals do not have to bear a strong moral burden compared to true sexual infidelity, due to real-life marriage and family situations, a deep sense of conflict within them cannot be avoided. Because in traditional Chinese ethics, men have much more social space than women, and even if women are deeply closed in the Swallow Tower, there is still a possibility of "immorality". Therefore, it is normal for men to have "red confidants", but it is unethical for women to have "blue confidants". Influenced by traditional beliefs, China's restrictions on love are even more stringent. Isn't there a rumor in the market that "women cheat first and have their hearts set?
The inner pressure is mixed with contradictions and anxiety, and at this time, one must find ways to vent, otherwise one will go crazy. From the internet to personal posts, from WeChat to the extension of various communication tools, non sexual infidelity between men and women is constantly releasing pressure.
Since more than 80% of married men and women have a mentality of non sexual infidelity, if you want to be a city lord guarding a besieged city, you need to show more sincerity and let this non sexual infidelity disappear completely.
