Post Date December, 03 2023
For a relationship, good relationships can really make a person happy for a lifetime, but in our daily life, when relationships are good, there are some external reasons, and the reasons for breaking up are also diverse. So, why are many men afraid of breaking up now? What are they really worried about? Interested friends can follow me to learn more!!
Why are more and more men afraid of breaking up?
1. Worried about the gender ratio, resulting in not being able to find
"From ancient times to modern times, China has had a considerable impact on the idea of valuing men over women. If it doesn't go far, let's take the current gender ratio as an example. The ratio has been seriously unbalanced. Several men want to snatch a woman, and men always worry about whether they can find a girlfriend after breaking up. Can he not be afraid?"?
2. It takes a lot of time to rebuild a relationship
What people are most afraid of is a habit. When you do something that has become a habit, and someday you no longer do it, you will always feel that something is missing, and your mind will be troubled. Love is also a habit. You have become accustomed to the days with her around you. Her every move, every frown, and every smile are familiar to you. The smell on her body can also make you easily identify her. Once she leaves after breaking up, you feel like the world has collapsed.
"At the beginning of a breakup, a man may feel very excited and finally regain freedom, but afterwards he becomes increasingly unsure of his feelings. His ex girlfriend's habits gradually become his own, and when he sees other girls, he always compares with his ex girlfriend.". Moreover, the amount of time it takes to have another relationship is an uncertain number. Therefore, men are also afraid of breaking up.
3. Few heterosexual friends around
When in love, people have a strong desire to possess, so they have a hostile mentality towards the opposite sex friends around them. This has resulted in the fact that men have very few friends of the opposite sex around them, while brothers and sisters are a huge basket.
After a breakup, to quickly find a replacement, you can only start with familiar ones around you. After all, if you rely on re acquaintance with some new friends to develop, you don't know what year and month it will take. There are not many heterosexuals around men, and even if there are, they are those who call each other brothers and sisters and have no personal relationships with men and women. How can they fall in love?
So, if it's really not appropriate to divide it, then divide it. If you feel like you can go on, it's best for a man not to break up at will, otherwise it's his own fault! After all, there are not many good single women in this world!
Conclusion: Emotions have been a headache since ancient times, so no matter when, we must take our feelings seriously. A good relationship is really rare, and both sides should cherish it. Even if encountering any major problems, we should not give up easily. The vast sea of people together is really a great fate! Of course, if it's really not appropriate, it's not mandatory, and it's also unhappy. Let her go and let her find her own happy life!
