In the eyes of men, what is the life of marriage like? The following editor summarizes the survival rules of men in the family. Men, come and take a look!
The rule for husband to pay out of pocket:
1. Don't give too much, but make your wife feel like it's too much.
2. If the wife feels that there is not enough, the increase should not exceed 5% when giving it again.
3. Remember, the amount of money given this time is the bottom line to be given next time.
4. Remember, do not easily increase the increase, otherwise, the increase will also have a bottom line.
Rule for Husband's Late Return:
1. Don't go home after midnight.
2. If it exceeds two points, think of two reasons.
3. If it exceeds three points, prepare three reasons.
4. Beyond four points, there is no need to think of any reason, because all reasons are in vain.
Husband's Eye Rule:
1. Don't look at other women in front of your wife.
2. If you are staring at other women, you should avoid letting your wife see you.
3. If the wife sees it, she should immediately turn back and look at her, saying, 'Why isn't she wearing that outfit as beautiful as you?'?
Husband's rules for sending flowers:
1. When in need, give a flower as a gift.
2. When you are wealthy, you can also send a flower, but when you are not sure that you will regularly send flowers, then don't give any.
3. Sending flowers should have a reason, don't be impulsive, otherwise it will make people suspect it is because of your guilt.
Husband's rule of survival:
1. Don't talk to your wife about controversial topics.
2. If you can't do it yourself, push it on to your wife.
3. After the wife finishes, you can add more, of course, you need to do more.
Husband's Disaster Avoidance Rules:
1. Don't ask anything you don't want to know.
2. Don't ask your wife what she doesn't want to say.
3. You can ask the rest, but don't believe the answer.
Married and good men must be good companions
Women need companionship, and love comes with companionship, which is' nurturing '. Modern women are economically independent and do not necessarily rely on men to support them in marriage. What they need more is "companionship". If "support" is hardware, then companionship is software. Men should learn to love their wives truthfully and emotionally during their companionship. Love is not just a matter of material accumulation, but also requires time to ensure it.
Chatting with others
The easiest way to feel lonely is through a woman's lips and tongue, so you need to talk to her. If you don't speak, she will fade like a flower. The 'chat' between couples is' flirtation ', and only humans can use language to communicate and strengthen love extravagantly. Perhaps you may find this kind of chat boring and a waste of time, but there are many reasons why you can't spare time
In fact, these are all excuses, time is available, and the key is whether you are willing. When in love, you also have the impulse to call her while sitting in front of the computer. When chatting with others, it is important to seize a few moments and share quiet conversations. Language massage can help each other fall asleep better and increase emotional warmth with half the effort; At the dining table, chat content is positioned as easy and gossip, sharing jokes and insights; On the sofa, while watching TV and communicating, you can discuss national affairs, popular information, trends and fashion, etc; There is also SMS chat, which is a way of chatting between text and language, often with more unique functions and benefits.
Women need companionship, and love comes with companionship, which is' nurturing '. Modern women are economically independent and do not necessarily rely on men to support them in marriage. What they need more is "companionship". If "support" is hardware, then companionship is software. Men should learn to love their wives truthfully and emotionally during their companionship. Love is not just a matter of material accumulation, but also requires time to ensure it.
Accompanying food
A long time ago, there was a famous advertisement in Taiwan that said, "Men who don't go home are easy to get bad. Women are very concerned about men's appetites and the number of times they eat at home, so if there is no necessary socializing, please be sure to go home and eat with the beautiful woman.
Of course, the most outstanding are two classic situations. If you appear behind her at the right time and kiss her, she will feel that work is worth it and life is meaningful - with just a little effort, you can give her such a huge positive force; The second is to personally dress up in an apron to cook, cook some specialty dishes, and then call her over to taste. She will kiss your face and ears by the way... Of course, a convenient way to accompany her is to take her to a restaurant and order a few home cooked dishes. She will also feel that this is your romantic intention, and a woman's psychology requires someone to "accompany". Eating is secondary, and "accompanying" is her central idea.
Accompanying purchase
The greatest joy of Olympic weightlifting champion Zhang Guozheng is accompanying his wife shopping, watching movies, and even having some barbecue at a roadside stall. He will feel very happy. For most men, accompanying women shopping is a headache. Actually, since he has already gone on the street with his wife, why don't a good man show the spirit of sacrificing his life to accompany a gentleman? When his wife selects clothes, he looks at her affectionately, with a joyful expression on his face, saying, "Women are the ones who please themselves." You should thank her for paying so much attention to your feelings. The wife likes to dress up, indicating that she is "still in love" and still valuing "charm education". She has such a beautiful heart, why is a man still disdainful or impatient?
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)