Post Date December, 03 2023
Aunt Liu originally had a happy marriage, and the couple loved each other like glue. However, with the growth of age, the middle-aged husband suddenly changed. He became lazy and seemed to be discouraged and unable to lift his spirits. The most distressing thing is that their sexual life, which has always been very harmonious, has also started to fail repeatedly because their husband has symptoms of impotence and premature ejaculation.
Aunt Liu felt very distressed and puzzled about the sudden changes in her husband, but occasionally her kindness was often scolded. However, Aunt Liu could see that her husband was also very painful and often regretted what she had done, but she seemed unable to control her emotions. Finally, he chose to escape and went to the south alone to expand his business.
Six months later, Aunt Liu received a letter from her husband, which left her completely in pain and helplessness. The husband said in the letter that he had lived with another woman over there. It was the woman who restored him to the function of man and was stronger than ever. He felt that he had fallen in love with her, even more than himself. Finally, the husband proposed divorce with guilt and humble language, and promised a huge sum of money to talk about atonement.
After Aunt Liu cried bitterly, she calmly chose to divorce. However, things changed dramatically two months later. The husband came back alone and said that he had been cheated by that woman and was ashamed to see his wife and children in his parents' home. Finally, Aunt Liu forgives her husband and reconciles with him as before, which leads to a long and happy life,
However, up to now, Aunt Liu still doesn't understand why her husband has made these changes, and why he made such a decision when he was originally determined and optimistic. When talking with experts about this matter, Aunt Liu looked puzzled.
According to expert analysis, various signs of Aunt Liu's husband showed that he was in a state of psychological imbalance during male menopause, which was a special psychological symptom of male menopause. Because, after men enter menopause, in addition to physical symptoms such as decreased libido, insomnia, increased blood pressure, and fatigue, there are also some psychological symptoms.
Since the level of male androgen (testosterone) secretion in menopause is not significantly decreased, it can be considered that the physical and psychological symptoms of male menopause are not closely related to hormones, so there is no effective drug to relieve them. So, what should men do if they have adverse physical and psychological reactions during menopause? The experts gave the following suggestions:
1. Adhere to regular physical exercise, activate the body and mind, thus improving self feeling, making people energetic and confident.
2. Adhere to normal work and study. This is the most important guarantee for men to maintain physical and mental balance.
3. Keep a stable family life, don't make too big changes, let alone extramarital affairs, divorce, etc.
Finally, experts reminded that if men have serious menopausal symptoms, they should take the initiative to communicate with their families and seek medical treatment in time. Under the correct psychological guidance of doctors, assisted by drugs to alleviate various menopausal symptoms, help men regain confidence and spend menopause in peace.
