Post Date December, 03 2023
In fact, all men will think so, but everyone will keep their mouth shut and never reveal this open secret. As for why men think this way, it has nothing to do with quality, which is determined by deep psychological reasons. Women's emotions come and go slowly, so their love for men is very lasting; But men's emotions come and go quickly. Psychological research has shown that men who contact a woman for a long time gradually become accustomed to the woman, feel dull, and are more likely to be attracted to new stimuli, which is why men are more likely to empathize with other people.
Countermeasures: When dealing with a lover or husband, appropriately create a sense of mystery, which can be achieved through an independent circle of friends, unique hobbies, etc.
Two psychological minefields of men
There are some topics that men are most reluctant to mention or hear, and if women do not understand these psychological taboos, they can easily provoke unhappiness in marriage. Specifically, what are the psychological minefields of men?
Men hate women who scold them for being useless and unsuccessful. For most men, not failing is success, because men know from the bottom of their hearts that there are only a handful of truly successful people. Despite their innate love of competition, talking about their failure can make them feel embarrassed and angry. If you think your boyfriend or husband is not doing well enough, please don't say he failed. Gently proposing to build a parliament is a good way.
Sexual impotence is a man's biggest psychological minefield, and talking about it can lead to men's fundamental inferiority complex, fear, and anger. Once a man has sexual problems, on the one hand, it is difficult to speak of shame, on the other hand, it is a strong sense of depression, confusion, and fear. In this situation, no matter how strong a man is, he will become vulnerable. If your partner has a real sexual problem, you should say it, but be careful how you approach it.
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)
