Men's three stages of life, doctors are alert: Men should be more cautious about impotence during menopause

Stage 1: One year before marriage and two years after marriage

Before and after marriage, both men and women are at a stage of relatively large emotional fluctuations. Nowadays, most young couples are only children, who grew up spoiled by their parents. Personality is more self centered, and most people don't think about each other. They often argue over trivial matters.

There is a young man and woman who have been in love for several years. Both of them are in a period of great success in their careers. They are faced with tremendous pressure at work and often encounter friction, which creates enormous psychological pressure on the man. Over time, it affects the physical health of the man and causes him to be unable to have an erection. The woman couldn't understand and scolded the man for fooling around outside. The two divorced two years after their final marriage.

The reason is that neither side understands accommodation. Two people are completely independent individuals, and friction is inevitable. As a male, you should be generous and dare to say "I'm sorry" first when there is a conflict, to avoid exacerbating the conflict, which has a positive effect on your own health and the feelings of both parties.

The woman should also understand the pressure on the other party and be gentle and considerate.

Stage 2: Married for over ten years

"Sleeping in a bed for 20 years can inevitably lead to some 'aesthetic fatigue'." This is a classic sentence from the movie 'Mobile Phone', which has aroused resonance among many people.

There is a couple who have been married for 12 years and their children are in the third grade of primary school. In the first two years of marriage, the most desired thing for a husband every day is to be able to leave work early and go home with his wife. Later, he opened his own company and began a life of early departure and late return.

Moreover, after giving birth to a child, the wife did not pay attention to maintenance, her figure was out of shape, and she did not pay attention to the care of her facial skin, which made her look old and lifeless.

In the face of his wife, who is no longer in style, he feels that life is boring and he cannot bring up the "sexual" interest. "Previously, having sex more than twice a week has changed to not having sex once in half a month.".

"If there is any disharmony in the sexual life of a husband and wife, and there is less and less skin contact with each other, it is necessary to carefully create an atmosphere of love and communicate the feelings of love in a timely manner.".

Generally speaking, couples working in the same unit are particularly prone to aesthetic fatigue due to the fact that both the unit and the family are facing each other day and night.

To overcome the boredom between couples, innovative adjustment methods must be used to enrich their sexual life and regain the feeling of love.

Even if work gets tiring, men should try to help with household chores, shopping together, outings, playing ball games, watching movies, and reliving the feeling of dating.

Women also need to maintain a fresh image. Frequent changes in clothing styles and attempts to use the husband's favorite perfume will bring new feelings to each other.

Stage 3: Menopause

Can elderly people also have sex? The answer is yes. However, when a man enters menopause, his temper becomes irritable and anxious, and he often hides at home. Some men may experience decreased libido during menopause, and some may experience a decrease in erectile ability, indicating that they have no sexual ability.

After more than 30 years of ups and downs, a couple originally had a very good relationship. I don't know when they started, but their sexual life became uncoordinated. The wife discovered that their husband was only perfunctory each time, and suspected that the man had an improper relationship outside. They often checked his underwear and listened to the phone... In order to restore the relationship that was on the verge of breaking up, they decided to go to the hospital for examination together.

During the examination, both men and women were found to have menopausal syndrome. After treatment and strengthened communication with each other, the relationship was restored to its original state.

Men and women should learn to understand each other, respect each other, and learn more about the characteristics of each other's natural physiological changes.

Respecting the interests of a loved one is the glue that enhances a couple's relationship. In the process of respecting each other and adapting to each other's interests, one gains an increase in common language and a deepening of the couple's feelings.

If there is a problem, you should go to the hospital to see if it is an organic problem.

If it's a psychological problem, couples can use the methods mentioned above to create a sense of freshness and relive the romantic warmth of the past.