Some men are very rough in bed, while others are gentle and considerate. In fact, this is not only the reason for men, but in some cases it is also related to women. When men encounter several types of women, they tend to behave more rudely.
Sexologist Edward Morley wrote an article pointing out that men nowadays are most afraid of four types of women:
One is a woman who is aggressive and domineering;
Second, women with high cultural accomplishment or high level of cultural education;
Thirdly, women with particularly strong bodies;
The fourth is a woman with a particularly beautiful appearance.
When men encounter these women, they tend to feel inferior and timid. And when having sex with these women, they often have to show off their strength.
Specific performance. As a husband, he admits to being like a fierce beast in bed, or roaring or moaning like a beast during sex. For him, even gentle caresses are a gentle bite to his wife, but what she hopes for is gentleness and gentleness
At this point, the wife should not just think that this may be due to the husband's rough temper. In fact, in real life, this situation is more common in some men who have problems in self-evaluation, which means they have a sense of inferiority. He didn't feel how powerful he was. When they were looked down upon and looked down upon by their more powerful and domineering female companions, these men instinctively developed a mentality of revenge, slander, and insult towards each other, as if this was the only way to free themselves from the feeling of inferiority. Therefore, using the term 'strong from the outside but weak from the inside' to describe their inner state is perfectly appropriate.
For my wife, when you encounter such a man, your relationship is currently facing a crisis. Perhaps your husband loves you very much, but he also feels very uncomfortable and uncomfortable. If this tendency is not corrected in a timely manner, it may ultimately lead to a tragic marriage. At this point, the wife needs to readjust her extrasexual relationship with her husband to help him overcome his inferiority complex and build confidence. Even if you are a very beautiful and accomplished woman, and he is a plain looking man with little glory in his career, as long as you still love him and cherish your marriage relationship, you should do everything possible to find all the excellence in him and sincerely appreciate him. Perhaps his handwriting is particularly good, or his singing is very beautiful, or he can cook well at home... Tell him that he is much stronger than you and others in this regard.
What will happen at this point? When he feels like a hero outside the bed curtain, he also regains his confidence in bed. At this moment, you will find that his caressing hands have become so gentle, and how tactful and touching his whispers on the bed are
From an external perspective, a man's rudeness in bed is influenced by a woman, but fundamentally, it is still a man's inferiority complex that causes trouble. To change this issue, men should reflect on themselves.