Post Date December, 02 2023
In those years, because of his vow of "I wish I would live together forever", the woman married him with tears and dizziness, looking forward to the matchmaking of "mountains without mountains, and the land is the same". But who would have thought that the cold dinner and the same cold heart were waiting for us after marriage. Are men really so busy? What are men looking for in the night?
The nature of work determines the way of work
Mr. Wang, 40, manager of computer company
People in our business really feel guilty about their wives and children. You can't eat several dinners at home a year. You not only have to entertain customers, but sometimes you have to take advantage of them to play bowling, massage, and karaoke with others in order to attract big customers. Sometimes you can do it all night. When you get home in the morning, you are just in time for your wife to work and your children to go to school. Sometimes I see this side in one day.
The wife and children are also used to it now. If they understand it, there is no way to do it. The nature of work determines the way of work. Occasionally I go back early to have dinner with them. They are so happy that they feel a little overjoyed. This made me moved and sad. Although it provided them with good material conditions, I also knew that they needed a "husband" and "father" more. There's no way. Since ancient times, loyalty and filial piety can't be both sides. I'll make up for it when I quit this business.
In fact, my wife is also worried. "If I don't come back all night, I won't be tripped by any woman, will I?" She often asks me half truthfully. We can only explain with excellent attitude. After all, it is impossible for any wife to have any doubts and thoughts about this situation, which means that she cares about us and cares about us. We should know and can't be bored. And she reminded me that I should also let myself make fewer mistakes. Now there are too many temptations in society, and my wife should be more strict.
The outside world is wonderful. The night at home is monotonous
Mr. Dai, 29, a futures company employee
To tell the truth, I often come home late, sometimes because of necessary entertainment, sometimes because I want to find an excuse not to go home. Why? To sum up, the world outside is wonderful, and the night at home is monotonous.
My house is not big, three rooms, a total of about 50 square meters, but there are two of us, a one-year-old child, and a nanny. We got together at night. It was really full. I didn't dare to take big steps even when walking. In addition, when the child cries and the wife and nanny are busy, alas, I, the master, always look at the superfluous.
Why not take care of the children at home? I also want to, but that little guy won't let anyone hold him when he has his mother. Besides, men who take care of children are not as good as women. They are clumsy. If they can't do it well, their wives will be worried. They don't think I can do anything. It's better to stay there and wait for training. Of course, I have to find a reason to work overtime and have a party with my buddies. Anyway, she can't care about me.
Going out is usually to get together with friends, drink, play cards, or surf the Internet, chat, and sometimes go to the singing and dancing hall to be cool. My wife sometimes gets angry because I often come back late and calls me on her mobile phone. At this time, she can't go back immediately, or it's just a scolding. When her anger is gone and the child is asleep, she will go back when she is tired. With a few sweet words, it's easy to coax her away.
Sometimes I really miss the time when I fell in love with my wife and just got married. At that time, the world between them was so good. After work in the evening, you can either come back to cook together, or stroll in the street, eat dinner and watch movies together, which is called colorful. Now, as soon as the little guy was born, his wife entered the role of "mother" very quickly. After the whole day's work, he cried with his son's "sweetheart", and I became a redundant person. Hey hey, don't say, I'm really jealous of my son.
When we move to a big house next year, the children will be older. Maybe it will be better. In fact, I still want to be with them.
Just make a name for it
Mr. Li, 32, civil servant
As a civil servant, there seems to be no reason why he often comes home late. In everyone's mind, civil servants are "on duty". They come to work and leave after work. There are no special circumstances when they should go home on time. But I often return late. Sometimes I work overtime to write materials for leaders, and sometimes I read books in the office to recharge my batteries. Now I am reading a second degree and graduate class in the self-study examination at the same time. I have many books to read and papers to write. I have to work overtime at night.
I have a strong sense of career, and now the social competition is very fierce, and the pressure is very high. I can't do it myself. Besides, there is a heavy family responsibility on the shoulders. My wife and I are college classmates. She is also a very progressive person and very supportive of me. The child is still young and is in kindergarten. Both parents are out of town. Her family cannot leave her. In order to let me concentrate on my work, she has undertaken all the housework. I am very grateful to her.
