An interesting phenomenon is that men don't feel much about themselves when they travel or stay out for some reason. "Once a woman goes out, she often has a" sneaky idea "in her heart. Although unlike women who deal with men, they call one after another, they are also restless.". People who can joke say this: "The love between husband and wife is obvious, and the wife can't bear to leave for a night.".
Men are afraid of green hats
In fact, from a psychological perspective, this is a hidden "sense of instability" in a man's heart. Let's colloquially call it "green hat phobia". This "instability" is a fear of what happens to his wife behind his back.
Research has shown that women trust their husbands far more than men trust their wives. This is consistent with real life - men can reasonably stay out all night drinking and playing mahjong, and coax women away, which is often not the case with men and women.
I once saw a case where a couple announced the dissolution of their marriage after three years of marriage,
The reason for divorce is that the husband has extreme distrust of his wife. As soon as the wife goes out, the husband needs to check her underwear. If he finds that there are too many secretions, he needs to investigate and chase after her. Living in a tense atmosphere of suspicion for a long time, the strings of marriage finally broke before a person's nerves broke.
Sexual behavior is a monopolistic psychology
Having sexual behavior inevitably leaves a large amount of secretions on his underwear. This husband's "virginity testing method" can be described as straightforward, but he forgot that the increase in female lower body secretions stems from many aspects, including sexual activity (including sexual imagination), gynecological diseases, and intense physical activity. "Secretions" have become a "surrogate" for his distrust mentality, forming a psychological cycle of "secretions"="cheating.".
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