Post Date April, 15 2023
In love life, women often hope that they can get more care. They will have many demands on their husbands, largely because they really love him in their hearts. Therefore, in the face of the wife's love, men should not feel upset! Today, Xiaobian will reveal the treasure of love for you from the psychology of love. Let's see how women like a person!
A treasure of love
1. Thanks to you, our family
Today's society has broken the traditional division of labor in which men go out to earn money to support their families and women teach their husbands and children at home.
Women should not only go out to work and socialize like men, but also undertake most of the housework.
Men feel that women are not at home when they are not at home, but they seldom take the initiative to help women share some housework. After work, they sit on the sofa watching TV and wait for dinner. There are many people who cry and hug their children to their mothers. Some men even ask their wives to help wash their clothes.
Men need to carry on the family line, but they don't want to conceive themselves. They leave all the pains and pains of October birth and childbirth to women.
Women have paid too much for marriage and family all their lives. If a man can say a fair word, "We owe our family to you", no matter how many grievances women feel, they will be understood and resolved.
2. My wife is really a good wife
Among the family relationships in China, the most difficult one is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Some mothers-in-law mix love with family affection and regard their daughter-in-law as the "rival" for their son's love.
Some daughters-in-law also feel that their mother-in-law is not their mother after all, and will ask men "who will save you when your mother and I fall into the water at the same time". Many marital problems are related to the tension between their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Men play an important leverage role in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but it is more effective to mobilize the wife's enthusiasm to respect her mother-in-law than to make peace between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Women friends know that as long as their mother-in-law is alive, they can't avoid dealing with each other. At first marriage, they all have the desire to have a good relationship with their mother-in-law. What a man needs to do is to discover and encourage his wife's efforts in time. Often, a compliment of "wife is really a good daughter-in-law" will calm her dissatisfaction with her mother-in-law. Even if she doesn't get the corresponding reward for her mother-in-law's efforts, she will not give up her efforts to have a good relationship with her mother-in-law.
3. It's good to be fat and not afraid of health
There is a poem saying: "Once spring is over, the beauty will grow old, and the flowers will fall and the people will die!" Women's youth is fleeting, and their looks are always irresistible natural laws. However, compared with the wrinkles on their faces, they are more worried about the gradually fattening figure.
Most women gain weight from the beginning of pregnancy. When they are pregnant, they eat two people's meals with one mouth. They sacrifice their body for the health of the fetus. They want to lose weight and recover their body after birth, but they are worried about affecting the secretion of milk and making the child suffer. When the child is a little older, they can have the energy to examine their own body, but they don't want to leave.
Body deformation will make women lose confidence. The most important consideration is not the impact on their health, but the tolerance of men.
Women also often test men's mouth. At this time, men might as well replace "yes" with "fat is fine, as long as healthy". Women give more attention because they love men too much. So, men, you might as well understand your wife's mood!
4. Buy as you like, don't be afraid to spend money
Although women have the impulse and strength to consume, they generally live a good life. Only a few people spend money like water. This is also an important reason why most families are dominated by women.
Women like shopping and enjoy the shopping process and shopping fun. A wide variety of goods will make women forget their worries, and they are happy with this and that.
Women usually don't spend money carelessly when shopping. It is common for women to go home empty-handed after shopping for a long time. Although they often carry back a pile of inexpensive goods that are not in urgent need from the mall, they are very careful to spend large amounts of money to buy high-end consumer goods for themselves.
When a woman looks after an expensive dress, she usually asks the man's opinion. If the man replies "too expensive, don't buy it", the woman will be very sad; On the contrary, if men say "buy as you like", women will be very happy. In fact, what she wants to know is your attitude towards her, and she may not buy this dress!
When a woman marries such a considerate man, she not only feels happy, but also puts more attention on the man.
Women like a person's performance
Some people think that a man is a kind of frank animal. When he takes a fancy to a woman, his behavior is often revealing; Women are a kind of implicit animals. When they take a fancy to men, they tend to avoid them. In fact, otherwise, or not necessarily. Let's talk about some outstanding actions of women after they take a fancy to men.
1. Deliberately wink at him and often act coquettishly in front of him
It seems that men are a little nervous to wink at women. At least they belong to the category with girly temperament. It is very normal for a woman to wink at a man, or it is a woman's patent - a special expression of the right to look after a man.
2. When I saw him with other women, I looked unnatural, even in a trance
Women are jealous, not only because of their husbands or boyfriends. As long as it is the man she likes, if that man plays with other women instead of her, she must be very upset. Even if the man is not her boyfriend or husband.
3. For what he said, either actively and obediently, or deliberately disobedient
After women take a fancy to men, they will listen to and even study every word they say. If a man says she looks good today, she may still wear it tomorrow, or she will wear it badly on purpose. No matter how she dresses, she is to attract men's attention.
4. When we know that he is in trouble, we will always give him help and cheer for him at the first time
If it is not the man you like, no matter what problems men encounter, women often don't pay much attention, even if they pay attention, they will not be very positive. If it is the man you like who has a problem, the woman is more anxious than the man and thinks about him when eating and drinking.
5. He attaches great importance to his whereabouts and often asks his friends where he went, who he went with and what he did
Women attach great importance to the whereabouts of men to such a degree that if they don't have bad intentions, they are 100% attracted to him. Just ask, if a woman has no feelings for him, where he goes, who he goes with, and what he does, it's none of her business? Does she need to be so bored to inquire?
6. For him, dress up as beautiful as possible every day, and let him see as much as possible
As the saying goes, women are the ones who please themselves. In fact, even if a man doesn't "please" her, as long as she takes a fancy to her, she will "accommodate" him. Therefore, she is bound to spend much time dressing up, and she can't wait to be loved by others. The train also has a flat tire when she sees it.
7. I often talk to him. It seems that I can't finish talking
As we all know, women like to talk. No matter how heavy her heart is, she will feel much more comfortable as long as she confides. However, a woman will not talk to anyone casually. In addition to the so-called listening expert, she will only find the man she likes.
Because in this way, men can also know more about her and promote communication.
8. When you go out to play, you tell him your whereabouts and invite him to go with you directly or indirectly
As for the man she likes, women not only attach importance to his whereabouts, but also want him to attach importance to her whereabouts. Therefore, when going out to play, women always tell him where she is going, who she is going with, and what she is going to do. In fact, a woman has a major purpose in doing this. She wants him to go with her.
(Intern editor: Chen Hao)
