The root cause of men's success and failure in sexual life lies in the word "hard". The world's top urology and andrology experts also agree that "a good erection hardness is equal to a more perfect sexual life". In the international community, men's erection hardness is divided into four levels: the first level cannot be erected and cannot be inserted, the second level cannot be inserted with a slight erection, the third level is not strong enough to be inserted, and the fourth level can be inserted with a complete erection, Only with a hard and lasting four-level erection can a man ensure a high-quality sexual life and obtain satisfaction from both sides. Therefore, to be a man, erecting is the absolute principle.
Twenty years of marriage is not equal to one word "hard"
In recent years, the 42-year-old Mr. W and his wife divorced, and the reasons for the divorce were very embarrassing.
Mrs. W said, "We have been married for ten years, but we haven't lived together for six or seven years. Either we are soft like a snake, but he often goes to entertainment places. I suspect he is sorry for me, I don't want to live this kind of life again."
This is not unreasonable. For any wife, it is unbearable to have no husband and wife for a long time. It is also out of frustration to propose divorce.
Mr. W said that he still has feelings for his wife, but he is really not good at that. He is "powerless" for his wife. Since that is the case, let's separate.
Mr. W's helplessness and distress can be said to represent the voice of a considerable number of men. According to a lawyer who has been in contact with a large number of divorce cases, the number of divorced families due to the disharmony of sexual life has increased sharply in recent years.
Man's awkward erection is not hard enough
A large number of clinical cases have shown that the relationship between male sexual dysfunction and marriage is very close, and more families should pay enough attention to it. Once a man has erectile dysfunction, the most direct harm is mainly reflected in the following three aspects:
1. Lose confidence and get worse
Many men think that if they suffer from erectile dysfunction (ED), they are not real men. They always feel that they can't do it. As time goes by, there will be psychological barriers, and self-confidence will decline, leading to more serious illness.
2. Low spirits, affecting work
Many men suffer from erectile dysfunction, which will cause certain mental damage. Men with erectile dysfunction often feel inferiority complex, anxiety, depression and loss of confidence; The introduction has affected my own work, and at the same time, it also has a negative impact on family and friends.
3. Affect the couple's life, and the marriage is in crisis
As can be seen from the divorce between Mr. W and his wife mentioned above, once a man suffers from erectile dysfunction, the impact on the family can be imagined, which will seriously lead to the breakdown of the family.
(Intern editor: Cai Junyi)