Most women prefer humorous men, and research has shown that spending time with humorous men can alleviate psychological stress and be beneficial for themselves. Let's take a look below.
Humor means interesting or ridiculous and meaningful. Humor can eliminate tension and anxiety in our lives, reduce stress, lubricate interpersonal relationships, help us overcome embarrassment and difficulties, enhance confidence, and thus promote human health. Therefore, humor is the "catalyst" for health.
Humor is the art of healthy living. Humor is everywhere and always present in life, and the problem lies in how you capture and search for it.
George Bernard Shaw, the British writer, has a brilliant metaphor: "Humor is like a spring on a carriage. Without it, every pebble on the road of life will make you feel uncomfortable." Humor is an advanced art of conversation. A mature person often knows how to use appropriate humor in appropriate occasions, turn over some difficult scenes, and ease conflicts in humor. For example, one day, the ancient Greek philosopher Socrates was discussing academic issues with a group of students when his irritable wife suddenly rushed in and cursed uncontrollably. Then, he picked up a wooden bucket filled with water and suddenly poured it over, wetting Socrates all over.
The students thought the teacher would be furious, but to their surprise, he just smiled and jokingly said, "I know, after the thunder, it will definitely rain." Everyone laughed heartily when they heard this, and Socrates' wife withdrew with embarrassment. In daily life, the vast majority of people inevitably experience unhappiness with family or colleagues. In such times, if we can be like Socrates, we can often turn tension into relaxation, maintain mutual assistance, friendship, and equal and coordinated interpersonal relationships.
Humor is the source and symbol of health. Medical research shows that there is a "happy center" in the cerebral cortex of human beings. When it is excited due to appropriate stimulation, it can cause a series of biochemical reactions in the human body, regulate the central nerve, improve blood circulation, and promote immune function. Humor is the best stimulator. Therefore, scientists vividly compare humor to "psychological massage".
Humor not only regulates psychological balance, but also delays aging. If a person wants to live a happy, healthy, and long life, it's better to have more humor. Of course, not everyone can learn humor. Only those who love life, have broad mindedness, and are optimistic and open-minded can have humor. A person who is worried, sad, or pessimistic and disappointed will not have a sense of humor