Post Date April, 15 2023
[Q]
I have been married for many years, and my marriage has become very numb.
However, suddenly, a female colleague came to the unit, unmarried, and I met every day in my class. Both of them had a good feeling for each other, but they didn't go to the point of destroying morality and corruption. They just said nothing to each other.
Finally, she got married, and there was an unspeakable feeling between me and her. After her marriage, we had a relationship, and her husband was not good to her. She did all the work at home alone, and always beat her. I know these heartache, but I also want to forget her.
It was a mistake for me to come with her at the beginning. Such things will be scolded by many people. We haven't contacted for two months. In fact, I miss her very much in my heart.
Just last night, she suddenly called and cried. She stood and said that her husband called her again. I didn't know what to say after hearing it. I knew there must be my reason. I wanted to see her! Afraid of making a big deal!
[Answer]
Why do we have sex after marriage? Because she is married, you are not responsible after marriage. Everyone is happy. After enduring for so long, we finally wait for this moment. Otherwise, an unmarried girl, you have sex with her. What should she do if she pesters you and asks you to marry her?
Don't waste your feelings and pity others. Your feelings are the product of hormone secretion and the synonym of selfishness. If true love, what are you doing when people are not married? If true love, people's marriage is so bitter, why don't you go through all the difficulties to save her? If true love, why don't you pursue it after divorce?
What can you do when you tangle there and use public opinion as a shield to show that you have to be separated from others and can't bear it? If you can't give others any benefits, don't use them as free tools for entertainment.
Don't have anything to do with her any more, don't harm others' daughter-in-law, and don't take the existing home for granted. When the family is going to break up, you will cry and regret to ask your wife for forgiveness. The numbness is because it is too easy. It will make people feel blissful.
