The length of refractory period is generally related to age. The younger the men are, the shorter they are. Therefore, some bridegrooms mistakenly think they are "great" and can have no refractory period period. In fact, at the moment of pausing, you were just a mortal.
The specific causes of refractory period are still unclear, but for ordinary men, the most important thing is how to understand it. The most common misunderstanding is that refractory period is regarded as the result of physical exertion, so even the wife will give her husband something delicious, including tonic and even "aphrodisiac". In fact, it mostly comes from the high tension of the nervous system formed by orgasm, which is why many husbands go to sleep with their heads covered, at least in a daze. If it is really excessive physical exertion, then why is it the same for some men who engage in sexual activity without exercise?
Another common misconception is that refractory period is regarded as punishment for self indulgence, especially among middle-aged and elderly men. Just as orgasms may be different from time to time, men's feelings about refractory period may also change greatly. When young, one may feel comfortable, but in middle age, it becomes rest. As one grows older, it is understood as: "Oh, why bother!" In fact, this is just one manifestation of old heart.
The refractory period is the natural protection of men's sexual function. Therefore, as long as no porn is used to increase sexual stimulation, no man can really "indulge in excess". The so-called "withered sperm", "extreme joy begets sorrow" and other rumors, either because I artificially interrupted the refractory period, or because the nervous tension in orgasm induced other potential diseases. The fault lies in not knowing or caring about the illness, not in the sexual activity itself.
Of course, people who regard refractory period as an obstacle also appear. Those who watch pornography, buy sex drugs, and consume supplements indiscriminately are all willing to be "slaughtered" and "confused". Some of them are due to reasons, while others are purely curious. However, those who want to return to spring with this or "ride the wind", or even "become immortals", should first investigate their conceptual and psychological problems.
How should men generally judge whether their refractory period has ended? Please wake up at night to urinate. If you find your penis in a natural erection state in the morning, then you are ready. There is another way: if you have a spontaneous desire and an erection, then you are ready. There is another way: having both spontaneous desire and spontaneous erection is enough. But it should be noted whether prolonged sitting, underwear friction, external pressure, or other factors have caused mental excitement?
Be even more careful: forcibly seeking sexual stimulation when there is no spontaneous desire is like a moth to the fire.
(Intern Editor: Wu Weijie)