Post Date April, 15 2023
Men lust after sex
In the face of the high divorce demography, the culprit is that men can not resist the temptation of the outside world. Before marriage, I was affectionate towards each other, but after marriage, I gradually became plain. My wife had no novelty in front of men, and holding her hand was like holding her right hand from left to right. At this moment, the colorful world outside is like a huge magnet, deeply attracting men. Even though he knows he has a responsibility for his family and loved ones, and knows that cheating is not right, in the face of the temptation of beauty, men still cannot help but make mistakes.
When asked what attracts men the most to women, the first thing is definitely beauty and sexual desire. When men choose a woman as their girlfriend, they first have sexual desire for her. Men do not have sexual desire for a woman and generally do not choose her as their girlfriend. Because men bear the heavy responsibility of reproducing offspring, if women cannot arouse men's desire to reproduce, then men must bear the pressure of family and society from all walks of life.
A man's desire for sex is not entirely a matter of his mind. Today, let's take a look at why men find it difficult to resist temptation and indulge in "sex".
Sex is a normal requirement
Food and sex, as our ancestors discovered, are just like eating, a normal human need. When it comes to people being iron, food being steel, and sex being a therapeutic device for mental illnesses. Psychologist Freud believes that many psychological disorders in humans are related to the suppression of sexual desire, and as long as sexual activity is normal, the psychological state is very healthy.
In the past, people had taboos about sex and could not talk about it, flirt with others, or engage in improper sexual relationships with women outside of their wives. Nowadays, with the progress of society, people's attitudes towards sex have undergone a 180 degree turn. Many men believe that sex is a normal desire, and when desires come, they need to vent, no matter who they are with. When men's desires strike, women are just the object of their desires.
A man always pursues novelty, and looking at his wife and girlfriend's single actions can make him tired. Therefore, pursuing novelty and excitement often leads him to resist the temptation of the outside world and engage in extramarital affairs to find a lover. These are no longer new things. Perhaps women outside of marriage are just men's sexual tools, and perhaps men harbor more emotions towards them, which only men know.
The difference between men before and after going to bed is significant
If a man sees women as the object of sexual encounters, then after going to bed, his behavior will be vastly different, and his heart will be entangled. He will feel sorry for his wife or girlfriend at home for such behavior. When a man falls into self blame, his behavior can be unexpected.
If a man sees you as the object of marriage, but there is a big gap after going to bed, then he must be suspicious. Many men have high expectations for sex, but after it happens, they realize that it's not the same thing. For example, they thought you would be a virgin with a pure appearance, but you seem like an experienced lover... Your behavior in bed can lead men to various suspicions, resulting in a large psychological gap.
But you should know that if a man sees you as the object of marriage, he will respect you very much and will not easily make demands to have a relationship with you. Therefore, do not easily agree to his request in front of a man, otherwise he will quickly see you as the object of an affair.
Men are very selfish about sex
People are selfish, especially when it comes to sex. In love and marriage, both men and women hope to be the only one for each other, and due to the influence of inherent male chauvinism, men are even more so, especially when it comes to sex. In terms of sex, men always allow themselves to make mistakes, while women are not allowed to make mistakes.
Once a man discovers that his girlfriend has had many ex boyfriends and rich sexual experiences, he will always feel uncomfortable. If it were known that a woman would fall out of love after marriage, then a man would choose to divorce without saying a word.
Wife infidelity can make a man feel embarrassed, insecure, and painful, which is something that cannot be allowed in a man's heart. At this point, men either want to leave this woman, or endure to be a cowardly man who looks down on them, or they will find more women to have sexual relationships to balance their psychology.
This is a man, a man who desires freely, is selfish, makes people feel uncomfortable, but also makes people unable to stop.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)
